Logan Sapphire
Ideal_Rock
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My son turned 2 in April and had been escaping quite easily and steathily from his crib for about 3 weeks when we decided it was time to move him out of his crib and turn it into a daybed. While he was still in his crib, he started coming into our room in the middle of the night and we stupidly let him sleep with us. This started during a very rocky transition to the next class at daycare (which is a whole other venting post of its own), so we figured he wanted some comfort and this phase would pass. WRONG.
Once we converted the crib, he now needs someone to stay in the room with him while he falls asleep, otherwise he immediately starts crying when someone leaves the room and he runs out after them. I know they say you're supposed to repeatedly put them back in with no engagement, while remaining neutral. When I did that, he became hysterical and ended up screaming bloody murder and crawling on all fours to get away from me so I couldn't pick him up. I repeatedly put him back in so many times that I ended up drenched in sweat and it took him an hour to calm down. We had hoped that once we get his actual going to bed routine down that it would stop the night and now nap visits to our room, but things are still very much not changing.
I don't think he was mentally ready to leave his crib, but we felt we had no choice b/c he was getting out of the crib nightly. We don't want to do crib tents or lock him in his room. He has new, big boy sheets, a white noise machine, music, we keep the light on when he goes to bed, lots of stuffed animals, etc. He's not scared of the bed itself.
We also can temporarily deal with him in our bed, but fear the longer he's there, the more comfortable he's becoming. And the real problem is that if he sleeps with us, he then is woken up at 5am when we get up for work, no matter how quiet we are (we bring in his white noise machine into our room, I sneak out and shower in a different bathroom, etc). If he's in his own room, he'll sleep until at least 5.45, which is a fair amt more of sleep for the little guy.
Anyone BTDT and have advice?
Once we converted the crib, he now needs someone to stay in the room with him while he falls asleep, otherwise he immediately starts crying when someone leaves the room and he runs out after them. I know they say you're supposed to repeatedly put them back in with no engagement, while remaining neutral. When I did that, he became hysterical and ended up screaming bloody murder and crawling on all fours to get away from me so I couldn't pick him up. I repeatedly put him back in so many times that I ended up drenched in sweat and it took him an hour to calm down. We had hoped that once we get his actual going to bed routine down that it would stop the night and now nap visits to our room, but things are still very much not changing.
I don't think he was mentally ready to leave his crib, but we felt we had no choice b/c he was getting out of the crib nightly. We don't want to do crib tents or lock him in his room. He has new, big boy sheets, a white noise machine, music, we keep the light on when he goes to bed, lots of stuffed animals, etc. He's not scared of the bed itself.
We also can temporarily deal with him in our bed, but fear the longer he's there, the more comfortable he's becoming. And the real problem is that if he sleeps with us, he then is woken up at 5am when we get up for work, no matter how quiet we are (we bring in his white noise machine into our room, I sneak out and shower in a different bathroom, etc). If he's in his own room, he'll sleep until at least 5.45, which is a fair amt more of sleep for the little guy.
Anyone BTDT and have advice?