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Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Apr 9, 2008
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HELP!
I am getting to the point where I really need to book a reception venue in the next few months. But, I cannot decide whether I want to have the 150 person wedding or just elope and use the money for a down payment on a house. My father doesn''t care either way. My mother wants me to have the wedding. The economy is just so bad I feel dumb for spending so much money on a single day. My fiancé does not care either way. Well, I think he would rather have the money or have a tiny small wedding of 50 or less so we could keep some of the money. I think I would either want nothing or have the big one!! Thinking about everything is stressing me out. Am I being ridiculous?
Has anyone else gone back in forth? What did you end up doing?
I am getting to the point where I really need to book a reception venue in the next few months. But, I cannot decide whether I want to have the 150 person wedding or just elope and use the money for a down payment on a house. My father doesn''t care either way. My mother wants me to have the wedding. The economy is just so bad I feel dumb for spending so much money on a single day. My fiancé does not care either way. Well, I think he would rather have the money or have a tiny small wedding of 50 or less so we could keep some of the money. I think I would either want nothing or have the big one!! Thinking about everything is stressing me out. Am I being ridiculous?
Has anyone else gone back in forth? What did you end up doing?