How would you feel if a very close friend declined to be a bridesmaid in your wedding? My one previous experience as a bridesmaids was so horrific, I vowed very publicly (to my friends) that I''d never be a part of anyone else''s wedding again (family excluded). However, another friend recently announced that when she gets married, I will be one of her bridesmaids. How do you decline without offending? This friend saw first hand how much time, consideration, and expense I put into being a bridesmaid the first time, and I have a feeling that''s one of the reasons she would be asking me.