BriBee
Brilliant_Rock
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- Jul 11, 2007
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I haven't even really begun the true process of planning our wedding, but I'm already entertaining the idea of eloping. I have always wanted a beautiful wedding and to wear the white dress and dance with my dad etc....but now that it's here, I'm not sure about it. The main thing that's holding me up is the money. My parents have given us a VERY generous budget of $30k, and I know that I could have the wedding of my dreams for this amount. However, in the past (before I was engaged) my mom would say things like: "when you get engaged I'm just going to write you a check and you can take the money and have a wedding or keep it for something else." Now that I'm engaged I'm wondering if this is still something that she would do, and if it is, should we take the money and run, or throw the big wedding??? It's so hard because I know that this would be so helpful for getting into our first home, fixing it up, or any number of other things. But then I wonder if I'll regret not having a wedding. Any suggestions?