My boyfriend and I have already been dated for 12 years this October. We''re highschool sweetheart. Reason why we''re still not engaged/married is because my mom had just accepted him the past Christmas. So throughout this 12 years, we''re together all the time, but sometimes in ''underground'' mode due to my mom. But now we''re really good. Everyone is pushing us to get married (including my mom) because I''ve 2 more months to finish off my 20s.
I''ve discussed the topic of getting married with him. He said he''s sincere to be with me, but it''s just that he''s not ready to take the responsibility to be a husband yet. I respect him for saying that. But can''t he just proposed to me first to show his sincerity and promise of love?
I mean, I understand that he''s not ready to get married yet. But being engaged, we still have time in between engagement and marriage for him to adjust.
For myself, I''m ready. I''m just waiting for him to propose to me. I''ve always hinted but I don''t want to push him. I don''t want to give him pressure to propose to me as this will not be sincere. I want him to propose to me with his willingless.
So when is the good time to be proposed? What''s the meaning of engagement?
I''ve discussed the topic of getting married with him. He said he''s sincere to be with me, but it''s just that he''s not ready to take the responsibility to be a husband yet. I respect him for saying that. But can''t he just proposed to me first to show his sincerity and promise of love?
I mean, I understand that he''s not ready to get married yet. But being engaged, we still have time in between engagement and marriage for him to adjust.
For myself, I''m ready. I''m just waiting for him to propose to me. I''ve always hinted but I don''t want to push him. I don''t want to give him pressure to propose to me as this will not be sincere. I want him to propose to me with his willingless.
So when is the good time to be proposed? What''s the meaning of engagement?