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Proposal Advice from the Ladies!! b4 dinner??

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proposalanxious

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I am proposing in about a month to the most wonderful woman that I have ever met. I am so excited and cannot wait for this to happen!! We are both fairly conservative and simple people and just really love to be togehter.

I am taking her to the place where we had our first date, then to the place where we first kissed. Each place I''m going to have flowers with a note about things in our relationshp that are so amazing, etc. Next is a toss up...we are either going to watch the sunset at the beach by our house (where I will propose) and then go to dinner at our favorite restaurant......or go to the restaurant and then to the beach where I will propose. We LOVE to go to this restaurant for apps a drink or two and then leave, so its not a long night there. Also, we are both fairly private and she would like me to propose w/o a crowd around. Would you rather be proposed to before or after the dinner??? I am leaning towards before so that we can go and celebrate and let loose a little, which we would love to do....but, I could TOTALLY see her wanting to come back home, open a bottle of wine and ...... so its really tough. Obviously, Im not a woman and would really appreciate your ponit of view!! Thank you!!!!!

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diamondseeker2006

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Well, if you want the proposal to be a surpise, I think the flowers left at those two places will send a very clear signal of what is coming! But that is a sweet idea!

I''d say propose before dinner since she''ll already suspect it is coming. You''d both probably be too nervous to eat if you wait!
 

CNYHopeful

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This sounds really romantic and sweet!!!!!! I''d recommend before dinner and you can have a special champagne toast either there or when you return home afterwards. Best wishes to you and your future FI!
 

iheartbora

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I say before dinner as well! It''s gonna be one of her happiest meal ever
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CravingDiamonds

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I would say before dinner as well as you can celebrate with yoru dinner. Also, I agree that the whole thing before the proposal may get her guessing that something is going on, unless you do stuff like this all the time for her.
 
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