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That's so compelling???
I was having lunch in a nearby coffee shop and couldn't help notice that much of the conversation going on around me were mostly gossip. There was a lot of "and then he/she said/did," often accompanied by wide-eyed disbelief. This coffee shop is within a block of a major employer. The amount of conversation devoted to other people's antics or annoyances is really high during the workweek, when presumably many of the coffee companions are also co-workers.
I suppose much of my conversation with friends could also be viewed as "gossip" (although I prefer to think of it as problem-solving rather than gossip ).
I was just wondering if my observations are off-base or on-target. Is there just something about a coffee shop/casual dining environment that brings on the gossip? If gossip is a major element of our interactions with others, does it serve some useful purpose?
I'd love to hear your thoughts and observations!
(BTW no, I don't purposely eavesdrop on other people's conversations. But I can't always tune them out either... )
I was having lunch in a nearby coffee shop and couldn't help notice that much of the conversation going on around me were mostly gossip. There was a lot of "and then he/she said/did," often accompanied by wide-eyed disbelief. This coffee shop is within a block of a major employer. The amount of conversation devoted to other people's antics or annoyances is really high during the workweek, when presumably many of the coffee companions are also co-workers.
I suppose much of my conversation with friends could also be viewed as "gossip" (although I prefer to think of it as problem-solving rather than gossip ).
I was just wondering if my observations are off-base or on-target. Is there just something about a coffee shop/casual dining environment that brings on the gossip? If gossip is a major element of our interactions with others, does it serve some useful purpose?
I'd love to hear your thoughts and observations!
(BTW no, I don't purposely eavesdrop on other people's conversations. But I can't always tune them out either... )