lliang_chi
Ideal_Rock
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I call my ILs "Mom and Dad" and first names interchangeably when I'm visiting them or visa versa. I make it a conscious effort to call them by first names when I'm around my SIL, though I think she'll be kinda territorial about it. I don't mind because that's not what I call my parents, so it's not like my ILs are usurping the title or something. My DH calls my mom "Mei Mei" which is our traditional "Older mother/aunt/female relative one generation above you." But he calls my dad "Mr. MaidenName." My dad told him he can call him FirstName, but DH still does the Mr. MaidenName... DH definitely doesn't say "Love" or anything to my parents. He's still quite formal with them, that they're my family.
As far as the "I Love You." Yes, but not on phone calls. It's sorta an "You have to be there" thing for me. For cards I sign "Love, LC and DH" I dunno, MIL had a VERY serious accident this year, so I think I'm a little more sensitive.
~LC
As far as the "I Love You." Yes, but not on phone calls. It's sorta an "You have to be there" thing for me. For cards I sign "Love, LC and DH" I dunno, MIL had a VERY serious accident this year, so I think I'm a little more sensitive.
~LC