AllieLuv83
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UPDATE:
I went into the daycare to pick up yesterday. My favorite teacher Miss Jenn was there and she started to tear up, said that she has been up all night thinking and that she realized that she never gave him the second bottle, and that she accidentally wrote down another babies bottle on Charlie's log. She apologized profusely. I told her that mistakes happen and that I make mistakes in the hustle and bustle of the day.
In the situation I don't think that my feeling were those of an overreaction. My first thoughts were that he was fed someone elses bottle or breast milk or formula and had that actually been the case then I WOULD have pulled him out of that daycare. I honestly don't think that any mom would be okay with their child getting someone else's breast milk by accident or not. If you would be okay with that then you are a much more relaxed mom than I am and KUDOS to that. That mistake would not have been forgivable to me. I view this as totally different from getting someone else's fruits or veggies, or even rice cereal. Call me CRAZY or a new mom but I will feel the same way with baby #2 and #3 as well.
I would have also thought twice about pulling him if they never came up with an answer to what had happened that day, and continued to stick to the story that they fed him 3 bottles and everything matched up.
Since the mystery has been solved we will continue to attend this daycare.
Thank you again for all of the perspectives it is interesting to see the different view points of other moms.
I went into the daycare to pick up yesterday. My favorite teacher Miss Jenn was there and she started to tear up, said that she has been up all night thinking and that she realized that she never gave him the second bottle, and that she accidentally wrote down another babies bottle on Charlie's log. She apologized profusely. I told her that mistakes happen and that I make mistakes in the hustle and bustle of the day.
In the situation I don't think that my feeling were those of an overreaction. My first thoughts were that he was fed someone elses bottle or breast milk or formula and had that actually been the case then I WOULD have pulled him out of that daycare. I honestly don't think that any mom would be okay with their child getting someone else's breast milk by accident or not. If you would be okay with that then you are a much more relaxed mom than I am and KUDOS to that. That mistake would not have been forgivable to me. I view this as totally different from getting someone else's fruits or veggies, or even rice cereal. Call me CRAZY or a new mom but I will feel the same way with baby #2 and #3 as well.
I would have also thought twice about pulling him if they never came up with an answer to what had happened that day, and continued to stick to the story that they fed him 3 bottles and everything matched up.
Since the mystery has been solved we will continue to attend this daycare.
Thank you again for all of the perspectives it is interesting to see the different view points of other moms.