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Shiny_Rock
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hi everyone!
i have 5 bridesmaids, and i told them to all wear a dress of their choice so long as it is in a shade of gray, cocktail formal, and they feel pretty/comfortable in.
one of them broached the subject of her wanting to wear a long dress. i originally thought, this might make the ensemble of BMs look off by having one wear a long dress, and others wearing a short dress. what are your thoughts? i prematurely said, "wear what you want! go for the long dress, but please coordinate with the others so you don't stick out as the long dress BM."
i do want her to feel comfortable. she's forever had issues with her legs looking too large, and she knows what makes her feel pretty. i respect that and want to honor that. the others want to wear short dresses because they like that look for themselves.
help! will it look off? am i freaking out too much over this detail?
will people really notice?
i have 5 bridesmaids, and i told them to all wear a dress of their choice so long as it is in a shade of gray, cocktail formal, and they feel pretty/comfortable in.
one of them broached the subject of her wanting to wear a long dress. i originally thought, this might make the ensemble of BMs look off by having one wear a long dress, and others wearing a short dress. what are your thoughts? i prematurely said, "wear what you want! go for the long dress, but please coordinate with the others so you don't stick out as the long dress BM."
i do want her to feel comfortable. she's forever had issues with her legs looking too large, and she knows what makes her feel pretty. i respect that and want to honor that. the others want to wear short dresses because they like that look for themselves.
help! will it look off? am i freaking out too much over this detail?
will people really notice?