Rock_of_Love
Brilliant_Rock
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Soooo...last week I had 4 guests that said they were coming back out.
I emailed my coordinator to let her know the guest count went from 40 to 36 and she emailed me back basically saying "too bad" and that the numbers were already finalized.
My coordinator had me send my "final" numbers 30 days out, but I told her I had some folks on the fence so it may be changing either way. At which point she informed me that if I went over 40, there would be additional decor/design costs, as well as catering/booze, as her contract is for up to 40 people. I said no worries and that I would let her know as soon as possible. I figured when I let her know last week that over 2 weeks out it would be enough time for the caterer to adjust quantities. She does not have to make any adjustments for decor/design work.
This is a difference of over $600, so not exactly chump change. And, the thing that is bugging me is that she was absolutely prepared to charge me for any increase in guest count.
I looked at the contract and it does not adress anywhere about changes to the guest count after the "final" numbers are given...also, it doesn''t say anything about what "final" means...or any repercussions, etc.
My last message to her just asked her to speak with the caterer and see if something could be done and she said she would, but that he is pretty strict. I just feel so helpless here. I already sent my final payment, so this would have to be a refund back to me...and, well, you know what position that puts me in.
So, any advice? Anyone else had guests back out but still had to pay? When did you have to send in your "final" numbers with NO changes. How would you not let this just eat at you?? How would you address it?? HELP!!!!
My coordinator had me send my "final" numbers 30 days out, but I told her I had some folks on the fence so it may be changing either way. At which point she informed me that if I went over 40, there would be additional decor/design costs, as well as catering/booze, as her contract is for up to 40 people. I said no worries and that I would let her know as soon as possible. I figured when I let her know last week that over 2 weeks out it would be enough time for the caterer to adjust quantities. She does not have to make any adjustments for decor/design work.
This is a difference of over $600, so not exactly chump change. And, the thing that is bugging me is that she was absolutely prepared to charge me for any increase in guest count.
I looked at the contract and it does not adress anywhere about changes to the guest count after the "final" numbers are given...also, it doesn''t say anything about what "final" means...or any repercussions, etc.
My last message to her just asked her to speak with the caterer and see if something could be done and she said she would, but that he is pretty strict. I just feel so helpless here. I already sent my final payment, so this would have to be a refund back to me...and, well, you know what position that puts me in.
So, any advice? Anyone else had guests back out but still had to pay? When did you have to send in your "final" numbers with NO changes. How would you not let this just eat at you?? How would you address it?? HELP!!!!