I learn something new everyday!Date: 2/26/2010 6:16:19 PM
Author: Haven
We typically give checks for bnai mitzvah around here. It''s hard to give a meaningful Jewish gift if you aren''t Jewish, or if you aren''t close enough to the family to discuss it first. (e.g. People usually say ''It would be my honor to give your daughter her ya''ad for the Bat Mitzvah, may I do that?'' So if you aren''t close enough to do that, it''s tough to be sure that you''re giving her something she hasn''t already received.)
We give in multiples of 18, so if you decide to go the check route you could give in a multiple of 18.
Date: 2/26/2010 6:16:19 PM
Author: Haven
We typically give checks for bnai mitzvah around here. It''s hard to give a meaningful Jewish gift if you aren''t Jewish, or if you aren''t close enough to the family to discuss it first. (e.g. People usually say ''It would be my honor to give your daughter her ya''ad for the Bat Mitzvah, may I do that?'' So if you aren''t close enough to do that, it''s tough to be sure that you''re giving her something she hasn''t already received.)
We give in multiples of 18, so if you decide to go the check route you could give in a multiple of 18.
I think this is a great idea if you don''t want to give cashDate: 2/28/2010 9:33:21 AM
Author: Regular Guy
Though I too ''get'' the desire to not give cash, and myself, regret not sharing with my friends at my bar mitzvah what I would like (but how would I have done that anyway?), my own family has set forward my tradition of giving something like cash, but not quite. Bonds. I don''t think any of my friends do this, and my son didn''t get them. But...when you give them, if a US bond, anyway, the face amount reads double for what you gave. Also, it gets to be saved for the future...for the future education, or whatever. Though it''s not a picnic to get (assign your own Social Security number, as this part is required, but the data is not important to the user...but check this out for yourself), it''s a gift that I''m satisfied to continue to give.