caribqueen
Brilliant_Rock
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I feel like I’m really getting into the swing of things with my wedding planning. I live more than 2,000 miles away from where my wedding will be held in my hometown, so we usually have to get a bunch of things done at once during our trips back home. My wedding is less than seven months away.
We recently tasted the food for our wedding and will have to make our choices; we selected cake style and flavors; saw sample reception centerpieces including the bouquet (all gorgeous); selected groom and groomsmen attire; and this weekend will order bridesmaid dresses.
So about my question: My wedding colors are purple/plum, leaf green, and ivory. My MOH will wear the purple/plum and the BM dresses will be green. My idea was to have my mother wear a dress in the purple family and my FMIL wear a dress in the green family. Many people think that my mother would look best in the purple rather than green, including me. In addition, I believe that the green will be striking on FI’s mother because of her complexion. The problem is, that I want to tread lightly moving forward and I don’t want FI’s mother to feel offended. Reason is, when she came over recently and I was informing her of all the wedding things, we started talking about colors and dresses. I told her about my wishes for the mothers’ dresses and she immediately jumped on the purple saying it was her favorite color. I should also say that she said she didn’t mind green. I believe it’s in my mother’s best interest to wear something in the purple family, and I want FMIL to look for something in green family. How might you handle a situation like this? What did you do for your own weddings and MIL and FMIL dresses?
Thanks in advance.
We recently tasted the food for our wedding and will have to make our choices; we selected cake style and flavors; saw sample reception centerpieces including the bouquet (all gorgeous); selected groom and groomsmen attire; and this weekend will order bridesmaid dresses.
So about my question: My wedding colors are purple/plum, leaf green, and ivory. My MOH will wear the purple/plum and the BM dresses will be green. My idea was to have my mother wear a dress in the purple family and my FMIL wear a dress in the green family. Many people think that my mother would look best in the purple rather than green, including me. In addition, I believe that the green will be striking on FI’s mother because of her complexion. The problem is, that I want to tread lightly moving forward and I don’t want FI’s mother to feel offended. Reason is, when she came over recently and I was informing her of all the wedding things, we started talking about colors and dresses. I told her about my wishes for the mothers’ dresses and she immediately jumped on the purple saying it was her favorite color. I should also say that she said she didn’t mind green. I believe it’s in my mother’s best interest to wear something in the purple family, and I want FMIL to look for something in green family. How might you handle a situation like this? What did you do for your own weddings and MIL and FMIL dresses?
Thanks in advance.