Oh okay, I won''t hold it... but I''ll keep checkin in for updates!!Date: 4/16/2009 9:01:03 PM
Author: equestrienne
Hahaha, don''t hold your breath there, Fishie.Unexpected bills, potential layoff, and grad school stress = NOT HAPPENING ANYTIME SOON.
I have never felt so safe and loved and certain in my life. He's 29 (I'm going on 35). And he's adorable, brilliant, hilarious. And sings like a freaking angel (He's a professional musician, so I finally have someone in my life who truly GETS my crazy schedule without reservation.) It's not all merry sunshine--we have had arguments. The difference is that we both so earnestly want to communicate and be kind to each other and really cherish what we have. We plan to do some preemptive pre-marital counseling to learn how to argue, if that makes sense--his idea! We just want to be equipped to continue to treat each other--and our relationship--with the care and reverence it deserves. The gist of it is that we have truly become partners. And aside from all of that relationshippy talk, we have a ridiculous amount of fun together and laugh all the time.
Oh, YAY!!! I am sure all of us who followed your last relationship are totally thrilled that you have found someone who REALLY loves you and makes you truly happy!!!Date: 4/17/2009 9:11:03 PM
Author: blueroses
Ok. I''m biting the bullet. (Again!)
May I please be added to the list.......again?
I was on the list from ''04-''06 and made it to #1. And stayed there. For a long, long.....very long time. And then it was bad. Sad panda was sad And then it got BETTER. I got to a really good place on my own, and when I least expected it, an even better place *not* on my own!
Anyway. I''m back! New life, new man, and have truly never been happier. We''ve only been dating a little under four months, but this is IT in a way we both have never known it before. It took me ten years the last time to know for sure it was wrong, and I knew this one was right in about ten hours. We''ve actually known each other for a year and a half, but I had no idea he''d had this crush on me until we finally got together around the New Year. We''ve now moved in together in a new place (where we''re saving tons of money), tentatively picked a wedding date (the goal is before I''m 36, so that''s before June 2010), our friends and family have all taken to us being together like, ''oh! Well, DUH, of COURSE!'', and things are so good. (Plus, all the wedding/kids/forever talk has been initiated by him. Which is such a wonderful change. Of course I''m right there with him, but given my history....it''s nice.) We have a ridiculous number of small world connections--mutual family friends (our respective best friends are second cousins) and it just seems in EVERY way like we''re meant to be together. I''ve never felt like this. Ever. He''s never even wanted to get married or have kids before me, and now he can''t wait. The earlier PS incarnation of myself would have said, ''3 1/2 MONTHS, are you CRAZY, take your time!'' And yet
So....can I get back on the list?
Lol. My bf knows exactly how your bf feels!Date: 4/23/2009 4:20:53 PM
Author: MonkeyPants
Hello ladies,
I can officially say I''m a lady in waiting because me and the bf have been talking about getting married for...a good 6 months, we''ve been ring shopping, and he keeps saying ''soon'' (yes I''m impatient and I ask him everyday when we''re getting married) I''m starting to get antsy-pantsy. There''s really no hurry for me (I''m turning 24 in August), but he''s almost 40 and I want our children to have a fun and active father growing up.
Anyway, enough about me. I want to hear about other waiting ladies'' experiences! I think this list is such a fun idea!
Pics and posts to come.
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