Her father is deceased, and her mother doesn''t speak English very well. Would it be a nice gesture to "ask" her older brother or tell him of my intentions? She said that her mother would not be seeking to be asked, plus I want this to be a surprise, which her mother would most likely ruin. I trust her brother to keep it a secret. Should I tell him, or not even bother since it is her brother, not father or a parental figure?
Thanks.
Thanks.