lala2332
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THis is long and off-topic, but I''m so sad about this and need to vent!
Background:
My college roommate/best friend lives in the city where I''m from. I''m not currently living there b/c of law school.
Anyway, she is a great friend most of the time. She is one of those girls that tends to get lost once she is dating someone and forget about her friends for the main part. I''ve always known this about her. I''m super independent, so this has never been a big issue. In college most of our sorority got really mad at her for this, and I was one of the few people that stuck with her as a friend, even though it ended up costing me "friends."
In college I made good grades without a lot of effort, so I tended to go out a lot and not take school super seriously, so my friend got used to my happy-go-lucky attitude with school. Law school is so different. I work by butt off all the time! I''m in the library every single day of the week!This past year I buckled down even more with school and went out rarely and didn''t drink much at all.
Anyway, she and her latest boyfriend broke up last summer. I worked really hard to make sure that she had tons to do, b/c I was in town then. My law school is only about two hours away, s once school started back up i got her to come down a lot since there is usually something going on. She even kissed a couple of guys that I''m in school with! My friend really wanted the old me around to go out and get crazy with her, but I just couldn''t. When I did go out, I would sip one or two beers all night and go home by 12 and would get mad when I wouldn''t party it up with her.
Current situation:
She hasn''t answered or returned my phone call/emails/facebook messages since February. I have no idea what caused this sudden break. I was in town a lot this summer and called everytime trying to see her and never heard anything back. It just makes me so sad that this is one of my closest friends and that she won''t even tell what I''ve done. As BF and I talk about getting engaged it just makes me so sad to think that she isn''t going to be a part of everything.
Background:
My college roommate/best friend lives in the city where I''m from. I''m not currently living there b/c of law school.
Anyway, she is a great friend most of the time. She is one of those girls that tends to get lost once she is dating someone and forget about her friends for the main part. I''ve always known this about her. I''m super independent, so this has never been a big issue. In college most of our sorority got really mad at her for this, and I was one of the few people that stuck with her as a friend, even though it ended up costing me "friends."
In college I made good grades without a lot of effort, so I tended to go out a lot and not take school super seriously, so my friend got used to my happy-go-lucky attitude with school. Law school is so different. I work by butt off all the time! I''m in the library every single day of the week!This past year I buckled down even more with school and went out rarely and didn''t drink much at all.
Anyway, she and her latest boyfriend broke up last summer. I worked really hard to make sure that she had tons to do, b/c I was in town then. My law school is only about two hours away, s once school started back up i got her to come down a lot since there is usually something going on. She even kissed a couple of guys that I''m in school with! My friend really wanted the old me around to go out and get crazy with her, but I just couldn''t. When I did go out, I would sip one or two beers all night and go home by 12 and would get mad when I wouldn''t party it up with her.
Current situation:
She hasn''t answered or returned my phone call/emails/facebook messages since February. I have no idea what caused this sudden break. I was in town a lot this summer and called everytime trying to see her and never heard anything back. It just makes me so sad that this is one of my closest friends and that she won''t even tell what I''ve done. As BF and I talk about getting engaged it just makes me so sad to think that she isn''t going to be a part of everything.