Cosmo_Gal
Shiny_Rock
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- Jun 26, 2008
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In light of the previous thread high jacking, I decided to start a new topic. I''ll do my best not to beat a dead horse. As far as I know, most of us are in the same boat, and if not were at least in the same boat before. We''re all here for the same reason which is to offer advice and to support each other. I enjoy coming on Pricescope every day and reading all the advice and great news everyone has to offer. I get excited for those with good news of engagements or progress, and get sad when others are going through tough times.
Therefore, it upset me greatly to come on here one day and see that ladies were feuding all due to some miscommunication. When I come on here all that I expect is that the other ladies will listen to what I have to say with open ears, answer posts honestly and show respect when it is due. I think we all do our best to answer each other''s questions with honesty and regard to that person''s feelings, but sometimes the truth hurts. You can''t blame someone for being honest; you did ask a question didn''t you? You make the choice whether you read what the other person said and take it to heart, or don''t. If someone did happen to offend you and they hurt your feelings, then that is fine, but don''t hijack someone else''s topic in order to voice your opinion on someone else''s actions. It totally takes away from what that person was trying to ask and puts the focus on you. I find that rude and downright disrespectful.
The bottom line is, respect each other''s opinions whether you agree with them or not. This is not a forum to pick fights and cut down other people. If that''s what you''re here for, then I suggest you try The Knot forum. If you have an issue with someone, then tackle that issue with them privately. Anyway, thanks for listening to my rant. I know this doesn''t apply to everyone, but I just felt like putting my feelings out there. I know I''m not perfect, but I hope that I''ve never offended anyone here and if I have then I apologize now.
On a different note..hopefully all of you ladies are having a fabulous hump day. Hoping to see some engagements this weekend!
Therefore, it upset me greatly to come on here one day and see that ladies were feuding all due to some miscommunication. When I come on here all that I expect is that the other ladies will listen to what I have to say with open ears, answer posts honestly and show respect when it is due. I think we all do our best to answer each other''s questions with honesty and regard to that person''s feelings, but sometimes the truth hurts. You can''t blame someone for being honest; you did ask a question didn''t you? You make the choice whether you read what the other person said and take it to heart, or don''t. If someone did happen to offend you and they hurt your feelings, then that is fine, but don''t hijack someone else''s topic in order to voice your opinion on someone else''s actions. It totally takes away from what that person was trying to ask and puts the focus on you. I find that rude and downright disrespectful.
The bottom line is, respect each other''s opinions whether you agree with them or not. This is not a forum to pick fights and cut down other people. If that''s what you''re here for, then I suggest you try The Knot forum. If you have an issue with someone, then tackle that issue with them privately. Anyway, thanks for listening to my rant. I know this doesn''t apply to everyone, but I just felt like putting my feelings out there. I know I''m not perfect, but I hope that I''ve never offended anyone here and if I have then I apologize now.
On a different note..hopefully all of you ladies are having a fabulous hump day. Hoping to see some engagements this weekend!