JFF: If you could change ONE thing about your S/O....

[SparklyLibra]

... What would it be? While I''m sure we all believe that our S/O is perfect for us, let''s be honest: nobody is perfect

Sooooooooo?

If there was only ONE thing you could change about your S/O what would it be?

Let''s hear it! (I hope this stays light and fun)

 

[LaraOnline]

I wish he was chattier and more ''touchy-feely''

He''s a real man''s man, the upside is that he''s incredibly accountable for his actions and is a real ''grown-up tough-guy''.
The downside is that he''s a ''grown-up tough-guy''! I wish he could let his hair down a bit and have more fun with me.

 

[Gailey]

Hmm, let me see. I think I would cure Mr Gailey''s snoring or find a way for me to sleep through it. I think I would also improve his ability to listen and take notice of me when I am telling him stuff.

I''d definitely like him to be more conscious and aware of a girl''s need for sparkly things.

Other than that he''s absolutely perfick.

 

[October2008bride]

I wish my DH was a bit taller That''s about it!

 

[meresal]

I wish he and his dad had a better relationship... well, to be honest, I wish his dad had been more of a father when they were growing up. FI''s 26, works for the family company, and each one of the kids are still frightened of thier father.
It''s very stressful for him, and I know he would be happier if his dad was willing to change and be a more approachable person.

I wouldn''t change anything about FI, because, to be honest, I would probaly miss it at some point down the road. Sometimes I wish he was a better listener, but then we''ll laugh hysterically when he completely miss hears something I''ve said.

 

[~*Alexis*~]

His snoring. Its really really bad...ugh! There are nights I wanna throw a dirty gym sock in his throat!

 

[SparklyLibra]

His split personalities at times.... Can we say Gemini? I call him Jekyll & Hyde sometimes, lol! It used to really get to me.... Now I have it down to a science! I know when he''s gonna switch and what sets him off... It just gets a tad annoying sometimes

 

[lucyandroger]

I wish SO would losen up a bit!

He''s a real stickler for schedules and sometimes really lets his nerves get to him.

 

[kiett98]

I would love if it he were more considerate when it comes to being on time.

 

[MonkeyPie]

I wish he would react a bit more appropriately when I am upset about something - instead of being blunt and telling me that worrying helps nothing

 

[AdiS]

Date: 4/23/2009 9:39:05 PM
Author: SparklyLibra
His split personalities at times.... Can we say Gemini? I call him Jekyll & Hyde sometimes, lol! It used to really get to me.... Now I have it down to a science! I know when he''s gonna switch and what sets him off... It just gets a tad annoying sometimes

Oh, tell me about it! I call him that too!

 

[sctsbride09]

Monkeypie, my DH says the same thing, hate that one! Cant they just comfort,nope! haha always realistic.

 

[princesss]

More drive to move around and live all over the world.

And maybe add a few inches in height, too.

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 5/12/2009 11:11:37 AM
Author: princesss
More drive to move around and live all over the world.

And maybe add a few inches in height, too.

Haha. Ditto.

More accurately, I guess I should lose a few inches. I''m the one that''s of above-average height!

 

[bee*]

Date: 5/12/2009 10:58:57 AM
Author: kiett98
I would love if it he were more considerate when it comes to being on time.

This is what I''d change with D too. I hate being late, whereas he doesn''t mind.

 

[princesss]

Date: 5/12/2009 11:12:56 AM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 5/12/2009 11:11:37 AM
Author: princesss
More drive to move around and live all over the world.

And maybe add a few inches in height, too.

Haha. Ditto.

More accurately, I guess I should lose a few inches. I''m the one that''s of above-average height!

That works, too! I''m 5'' 10" (5'' 9 3/4" if you want to get technical) and would loooooove to be 5'' 7". It would make his 6'' seem much taller!

 

[strmrdr]

Her location

 

[Lauren8211]

Date: 5/12/2009 11:15:46 AM
Author: princesss

Date: 5/12/2009 11:12:56 AM
Author: elledizzy5

Date: 5/12/2009 11:11:37 AM
Author: princesss
More drive to move around and live all over the world.

And maybe add a few inches in height, too.

Haha. Ditto.

More accurately, I guess I should lose a few inches. I''m the one that''s of above-average height!

That works, too! I''m 5'' 10'' (5'' 9 3/4'' if you want to get technical) and would loooooove to be 5'' 7''. It would make his 6'' seem much taller!

Oh... get technical! I''m also 5''9 3/4".

...technically. 5''10" sounds cooler though.

 

[Circe]

His love of shopping (or rather, the lack thereof) and his taste for museum-going (ditto) - my husband is a wonderful man, and we''re similar in our tastes on most things, but, damn! His hatred of those two activities makes it tough to ever dream of visiting Paris ....

 

[Pandora II]

There is honestly only one thing that I would change about my DH - his allergies...

We'd love a cat and there's just no chance. It also makes it difficult visiting my parents as they have cats and he can only spend 2 hours at a time in the house and then has to go and sit in the car for an hour to recover.

Other than that, I can't think of anything I'd change at all.

Circe - it does seem to be an all or nothing thing for men with shopping. My sister's husband waits outside shops for her, DH's brother won't go at all and yet both my father and my DH's ideas of a fun Saturday is to go shopping (not clothes though - just things!).

 

[Circe]

Date: 5/12/2009 11:45:33 AM
Author: Pandora II
There is honestly only one thing that I would change about my DH - his allergies...


We''d love a cat and there''s just no chance. It also makes it difficult visiting my parents as they have cats and he can only spend 2 hours at a time in the house and then has to go and sit in the car for an hour to recover.


Other than that, I can''t think of anything I''d change at all.


Circe - it does seem to be an all or nothing thing for men with shopping. My sister''s husband waits outside shops for her, DH''s brother won''t go at all and yet both my father and my DH''s ideas of a fun Saturday is to go shopping (not clothes though - just things!).

Heh - that''s my husband down to the ground. He just whips out his BlackBerry and looks long-suffering ... whereas on the other hand, my dad is the one who taught me everything I know about cut. Go figure.

Pandora, has your husband tried allergy shots? I don''t know if they''d minimize the allergies to a bearable point for having a cat of your own, but they could make life easier for dealing with dander in other people''s home ... and for a pet of your own, they have managed to mutate a breed of special, hypoallergenic cats. They''re pricey, but not all that much worse than any other pure-breed ....

 

[Bliss]

I would clone him so I'd always have a back-up! LOL. Hey, we back up computer files - why not husbands?

Ask me on a bad day and I'd say - I'd take the model that didn't leave socks on the floor. LOL.

 

[mrscushion]

I''d turn him from a "night person" into a "day person," so our preferred schedules would align a little better.

 

[february2003bride]

I wish he would put the new toilet paper roll so that the tp goes over the top and not behind! Other than that, he''s good

 

[Dancing Fire]

Date: 5/12/2009 11:20:22 AM
Author: elledizzy5

Oh... get technical! I''m also 5''9 3/4''.

...technically. 5''10'' sounds cooler though.

remind me not to mess with ya.

 

[Steel]

More logical.

 

[Lilac]

I also wish he would be more considerate about time. I HATE being late, and he seems very laid-back about it most of the time, and not really so concerned with getting places on time.

Other than that, not much

 

[Kelli]

His rediculous snoring!

 

[allycat0303]

He would DETEST hockey.
And love to CLEAN.

 

[JSM]

He''s too much of a pleaser. He wants people to be happy with them, and will go out of his way to help others... but at the expense of himself. And people LOVE to take advantage of that.

This is one reason we will NOT move close to where he grew up.

So he needs to learn how to say no!