MC|1302214408|2890544 said:suchende|1302213894|2890537 said:2of2 -- I don't think it will level off any time soon because of the huge gap between ethnicities. I think it's more likely that whites in the U.S. will "catch up" with African-Americans and Hispanics.
Am I confused...is this an avenue to venture down?
suchende|1302214781|2890549 said:I dunno. There's clearly a trend that's more exaggerated in some demographics. It makes me think the plateau for the country as a whole isn't on the horizon. I could be wrong.MC|1302214408|2890544 said:suchende|1302213894|2890537 said:2of2 -- I don't think it will level off any time soon because of the huge gap between ethnicities. I think it's more likely that whites in the U.S. will "catch up" with African-Americans and Hispanics.
Am I confused...is this an avenue to venture down?
thing2of2|1302214992|2890553 said:MC|1302214408|2890544 said:suchende|1302213894|2890537 said:2of2 -- I don't think it will level off any time soon because of the huge gap between ethnicities. I think it's more likely that whites in the U.S. will "catch up" with African-Americans and Hispanics.
Am I confused...is this an avenue to venture down?
African-Americans and Hispanic/Latino Americans have lower rates of marriage than Caucasian Americans do...just a fact.
MC|1302215286|2890558 said:thing2of2|1302214992|2890553 said:MC|1302214408|2890544 said:suchende|1302213894|2890537 said:2of2 -- I don't think it will level off any time soon because of the huge gap between ethnicities. I think it's more likely that whites in the U.S. will "catch up" with African-Americans and Hispanics.
Am I confused...is this an avenue to venture down?
African-Americans and Hispanic/Latino Americans have lower rates of marriage than Caucasian Americans do...just a fact.
So what.
This thread was about the general reasons why or why not to to get married, etc., not about ethnic groups.
thing2of2|1302215112|2890556 said:Did I miss a post about how this relates to poverty?
ETA nevermind, I see that you're talking about the graph that was just posted. I don't think questions of poverty are out of bounds when it comes to marriage.
suchende|1302215497|2890562 said:Fixed the graph to not have the commentary. The reason I think it supports the idea that marriage in general in the U.S. might be fading is from a Washington Post article that noted "Often what happens in black America is a sign of what the rest of America can eventually expect." http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/03/25/AR2006032500029.html
thing2of2|1302215369|2890561 said:MC|1302215286|2890558 said:thing2of2|1302214992|2890553 said:MC|1302214408|2890544 said:suchende|1302213894|2890537 said:2of2 -- I don't think it will level off any time soon because of the huge gap between ethnicities. I think it's more likely that whites in the U.S. will "catch up" with African-Americans and Hispanics.
Am I confused...is this an avenue to venture down?
African-Americans and Hispanic/Latino Americans have lower rates of marriage than Caucasian Americans do...just a fact.
So what.
This thread was about the general reasons why or why not to to get married, etc., not about ethnic groups.
Right, and suchende thinks that when rates of marriage among whites drop to the same level of African-American and Hispanic-American rates of marriage, then maybe the decline will level off. I don't see how that's offensive. But everyone seems to gets offended by everything on Pricescope, which is why it's such a boring place these days.
What?MC|1302215885|2890566 said:I'm not offended. Just bewildered as to why suchende began talking about her rich friends having kids out of wedlock and then decided to redirect to poor black women.
MC|1302215885|2890566 said:I'm not offended. Just bewildered as to why suchende began talking about her rich friends having kids out of wedlock and then decided to redirect to poor black women.thing2of2|1302215369|2890561 said:Right, and suchende thinks that when rates of marriage among whites drop to the same level of African-American and Hispanic-American rates of marriage, then maybe the decline will level off. I don't see how that's offensive. But everyone seems to gets offended by everything on Pricescope, which is why it's such a boring place these days.MC|1302215286|2890558 said:So what.thing2of2|1302214992|2890553 said:African-Americans and Hispanic/Latino Americans have lower rates of marriage than Caucasian Americans do...just a fact.MC|1302214408|2890544 said:suchende|1302213894|2890537 said:2of2 -- I don't think it will level off any time soon because of the huge gap between ethnicities. I think it's more likely that whites in the U.S. will "catch up" with African-Americans and Hispanics.
Am I confused...is this an avenue to venture down?
This thread was about the general reasons why or why not to to get married, etc., not about ethnic groups.
suchende|1302216266|2890575 said:What?MC|1302215885|2890566 said:I'm not offended. Just bewildered as to why suchende began talking about her rich friends having kids out of wedlock and then decided to redirect to poor black women.
HollyS|1302217531|2890594 said:"Marriage vows are meaningless if divorce is possible." (kenny)
I disagree. My marriage vows are not meaningless to me. Nor to my husband.
Neither your opinion, nor your situation invalidates my vows. And, as conservative as I am, I understand the gay community's desire for the same level of marriage equality. Because it does mean something.
It's probably feels more "romantic" for the wealthier party, though.VapidLapid|1302221105|2890644 said:I think pre-nups are even kind of romantic. They say, "I am not marrying you for your money or some such advantage, I dont care that much about your wealth obtained prior to our union, I am marrying you for the meaning to us, not the money, and expect you are marrying me with the same intentions. Life IS complex in the post-modern world and we both have the need to feel more secure and comfortable with each other in the knowledge that the MAIN thing holding us together is only us.
somethingshiny|1302216331|2890577 said:"violently" ??? Wow.
I stand by my opinion. If those who think prenups are necessary simply didn't get married, they'd have no divorce to worry about. I really think if planning your financial protection is something that tops your list when you're committing your life to someone, you're not ready.
I respect your opinion though. And obviously you win this one because prenups do in fact exist.
VapidLapid|1302221105|2890644 said:I think pre-nups are even kind of romantic. They say, "I am not marrying you for your money or some such advantage, I dont care that much about your wealth obtained prior to our union, I am marrying you for the meaning to us, not the money, and expect you are marrying me with the same intentions. Life IS complex in the post-modern world and we both have the need to feel more secure and comfortable with each other in the knowledge that the MAIN thing holding us together is only us.