Callisto
Brilliant_Rock
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So I don''t post in BWW ever, as I am not even engaged yet, but I thought maybe someone here could help ease my mind about my situation.
SO and I have been together 3.5 years now and are planning to get engaged sometime in 2010... (or at least that''s what he''s led me to believe so let''s hope). We are both from the Chicago area and the majority of both of our families are from the midwest, however we are currently in Texas while SO finishes school. So the plan was to move back to the midwest after about one more year. Well now I''ve gone and applied to grad school here at the school he''s at (and where I work) and we will probably be here for another 2.5 years at minimum. I''m happy with this choice, but I can''t help wondering where in the world we''ll get married. I really don''t want to have a 2 year engagement so it would appear that we would get married while still living in Texas. However, I''d feel weird not getting married in Chicago and making all our friends and family travel across the country on our behalf.
So I guess I will be planning a destination wedding... in Chicago? Anyone here had to do that? Easier than you expected... harder than you expected... any words of wisdom?
SO and I have been together 3.5 years now and are planning to get engaged sometime in 2010... (or at least that''s what he''s led me to believe so let''s hope). We are both from the Chicago area and the majority of both of our families are from the midwest, however we are currently in Texas while SO finishes school. So the plan was to move back to the midwest after about one more year. Well now I''ve gone and applied to grad school here at the school he''s at (and where I work) and we will probably be here for another 2.5 years at minimum. I''m happy with this choice, but I can''t help wondering where in the world we''ll get married. I really don''t want to have a 2 year engagement so it would appear that we would get married while still living in Texas. However, I''d feel weird not getting married in Chicago and making all our friends and family travel across the country on our behalf.
So I guess I will be planning a destination wedding... in Chicago? Anyone here had to do that? Easier than you expected... harder than you expected... any words of wisdom?