mimzy
Brilliant_Rock
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Lately FI has been fake-guilt tripping me into letting him have his way with a bunch of stuff for the wedding. His leverage includes letting me use my preferred processional song (which isn''t traditional at all, when he wanted canon in d) and the location (he wanted it at a hall in his hometown....which wasn''t exactly what i was thinking). so because i came out on top with these two things, he''s gotten to choose...
- the bouquet: i''ll be carrying the hand tied bouquet he likes instead of the presentation style that i liked
- the music: during the cocktail hour we''ll be listening to a mix of the music we listen to (descendants,knapsack,the format, etc) instead of more blue-sy/jazzy stuff that fits the venue (not that i am really fighting this one)
- my hair: it will be up, instead of the down ''do i wanted (BUT i get to pick the color, so that was a mini victory for me)
-recessional song: we''re doing whatever the traditional song is when i had my heart set on another song
these things haven''t been the source of tension or anything, but i think i was surprised with how disappointed i actually felt when i realized that i wasn''t going to be able to do the things that i was hoping to do. I know that no two people have the EXACT same vision for their wedding day and it actually makes me feel a little excited that FI cares about his own vision enough to stand up for what he wants. but it still makes me sad to delete all those beautiful down hairstyles!
So what are some things that you have had to compromise on or totally concede to your FI regarding the wedding? What has your FI compromised on for you?
- the bouquet: i''ll be carrying the hand tied bouquet he likes instead of the presentation style that i liked
- the music: during the cocktail hour we''ll be listening to a mix of the music we listen to (descendants,knapsack,the format, etc) instead of more blue-sy/jazzy stuff that fits the venue (not that i am really fighting this one)
- my hair: it will be up, instead of the down ''do i wanted (BUT i get to pick the color, so that was a mini victory for me)
-recessional song: we''re doing whatever the traditional song is when i had my heart set on another song
these things haven''t been the source of tension or anything, but i think i was surprised with how disappointed i actually felt when i realized that i wasn''t going to be able to do the things that i was hoping to do. I know that no two people have the EXACT same vision for their wedding day and it actually makes me feel a little excited that FI cares about his own vision enough to stand up for what he wants. but it still makes me sad to delete all those beautiful down hairstyles!
So what are some things that you have had to compromise on or totally concede to your FI regarding the wedding? What has your FI compromised on for you?