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Ideal_Rock
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Before I ask my question I need to get the prerequisites out of the way: I understand that there are no obligations for folks to get us gifts, we just want their presence, I am uncomfortable with the registry thing but didn''t want 7 crock pots, and we are both 31 and live together so own forks.
Whew. OK, so on earlier threads folks were really specific that the registry shouldn''t include everything and the kitchen sink and I totally agree. But here I sit, 3 weeks till the wedding, and all of the flatware and china has been purchased, plus some random Judaica I knew great aunts would be into purchasing. Now what should I do? Yeah, its a rough life having all my registry gone
but again, the crock pot situation...my poor mum has had to go to BB&B several times to return totally random stuff (she loves it so is fine) but I''m now wondering if I should register for stuff that we don''t want on the site that we have been using and rolling it over into silver. That is what is incomplete, only have 5 settings so far, but they are pricey so that is not a surprise. I feel weird doing that, and wouldn''t with stuff from dear ones, but its the extended relatives... I hate that I sound like a whiney person here, but I don''t want to be that person who has a ton on the registry... and yet people are complaining that there isn''t anything there anymore. Should I register for picture frames? Leave it as is and just hope that no one gets us anything else or create a new game of guessing what is in the box?
Oh, and I might be dying of jet lag so that is not helping anything. Brain has turned to soup. Thanks for your insight.
Whew. OK, so on earlier threads folks were really specific that the registry shouldn''t include everything and the kitchen sink and I totally agree. But here I sit, 3 weeks till the wedding, and all of the flatware and china has been purchased, plus some random Judaica I knew great aunts would be into purchasing. Now what should I do? Yeah, its a rough life having all my registry gone
Oh, and I might be dying of jet lag so that is not helping anything. Brain has turned to soup. Thanks for your insight.