Circe|1321287261|3061393 said:As Amy says in the bar-scene in "Chasing Amy" ... I got that beat. All of it.
My husband loved the braided silver engagement band that I made for him so much that he requested I make a bigger one for him to wear for his wedding band, in red and white gold. The thing is, working with heavy gauge wire is a bitch. And In rose gold? Fuggedaboutit. I made something like a dozen models, all of which were gently noted to have one imperfection or another. I finally threw my hands up, told him that my pro guy who custom made all my pieces to my specifications would be making his ring to my specifications, too, and called it a day.
He does love it.
But by that point, our finances were pretty much immutably joined, so while I may have sunk a lot of blood, sweat, tears, etc., into it, it was definitely a joint purchase, as was my band.
Gotta say, this topic confuses me a little - are there really dudes out there who just shrug and say "Eh, whatever" about something they'll be wearing for the rest of their lives? I can't decide if I find that restful or alien ...
Tuckins1|1321272958|3061273 said:He chose and I paid. Not that it mattered, because we combined bank accounts anyways, but it's just the principle...
jstarfireb|1321314539|3061731 said:He chose and I paid. Luckily it was a whole lot less expensive than mine!
kenny|1321295162|3061481 said:Whatever the two people decide, just like with straight people.
Circe|1321287261|3061393 said:As Amy says in the bar-scene in "Chasing Amy" ... I got that beat. All of it.
My husband loved the braided silver engagement band that I made for him so much that he requested I make a bigger one for him to wear for his wedding band, in red and white gold. The thing is, working with heavy gauge wire is a bitch. And In rose gold? Fuggedaboutit. I made something like a dozen models, all of which were gently noted to have one imperfection or another. I finally threw my hands up, told him that my pro guy who custom made all my pieces to my specifications would be making his ring to my specifications, too, and called it a day.
He does love it.
But by that point, our finances were pretty much immutably joined, so while I may have sunk a lot of blood, sweat, tears, etc., into it, it was definitely a joint purchase, as was my band.
Gotta say, this topic confuses me a little - are there really dudes out there who just shrug and say "Eh, whatever" about something they'll be wearing for the rest of their lives? I can't decide if I find that restful or alien ...