To my eyes, there isn't a huge visual difference between the two bands -- they both look great with your e-ring! So go with the one you and your man REALLY want! People rarely regret going bigger....though if you do, you can just wear it alone or stacked with a plain band on days when you want to keep things simple. Or, you can wear it on your right hand.
You have a lifetime ahead of you to collect bands of different widths, so get the one you're craving now, and then get a bigger or smaller diamond band for a future birthday or anniversary.
For reference: My finger is about the same size as yours and I have a 7-stone band with 10-pointers that I pair with all of my engagement-style rings, which range in size from a 1.37 ct center to 3.14 ct. I think it looks great with all of them. I personally feel that 10-pointers are one of the most versatile sizes for wedding bands!
Thanks! I picked the 7 pointers in the end. Just a better balance. I’m hoping I will get a 10 pointers for anniversary!