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Saoirse2|1321677342|3064976 said:Zujirushi BB-CEC20
K. Dagger Hallie wedge booties in leopard.
ETA: What a gorgeous little baby boy!
missy|1321716695|3065159 said:Generac generator for our beach house.
And more importantly for my dad to have successful knee surgery and rehab (the Monday after Thanksgiving is his surgery date).
This is the main thing I want for the holidays. For my dad to come through it all OK. He's not young and I worry.
mrs jam|1321719401|3065176 said:missy|1321716695|3065159 said:Generac generator for our beach house.
And more importantly for my dad to have successful knee surgery and rehab (the Monday after Thanksgiving is his surgery date).
This is the main thing I want for the holidays. For my dad to come through it all OK. He's not young and I worry.
Hi Missy, is he having knee replacement surgery? My dad had this done last spring. It took him a long time to finally commit to having the surgery, but once the pain really started to diminish his overall quality of life, he bit the bullet. He's 72 and extremely active, and it drove him nuts that he wasn't able to do the things he was used to doing without pain. Now he says he wished he hadn't wasted so much time before getting it done.
The recovery and physical therapy process is NOT fun. It really shook me up to see my dad grimace in pain, because he has always been so stoic. For the first couple of months, he wondered if he had made the right decision, but he was just being impatient with his recovery. Now that he has gotten through the recovery, he is so freaking happy with the surgery! No limp, no pain; just an occasional stiffness here and there. He's got his old, pain-free life back!
The most important thing for your dad to remember is that he must be patient with himself through the recovery and physical therapy, and follow his doctor's and therapist's directions to a T! My dad wanted to over-do the exercises, and that does more harm than good and slows down the recovery process. Also, be prepared for the pain to be much worse before it gets better during the first six weeks or so. But just know that it will be sooooo worth it once everything heals!
Sorry for the thread jack. It's tough to see your parent go through a painful recovery, but it will be fine! Just help him keep his spirits up during recovery.
missy|1321722679|3065190 said:mrs jam|1321719401|3065176 said:missy|1321716695|3065159 said:Generac generator for our beach house.
And more importantly for my dad to have successful knee surgery and rehab (the Monday after Thanksgiving is his surgery date).
This is the main thing I want for the holidays. For my dad to come through it all OK. He's not young and I worry.
Hi Missy, is he having knee replacement surgery? My dad had this done last spring. It took him a long time to finally commit to having the surgery, but once the pain really started to diminish his overall quality of life, he bit the bullet. He's 72 and extremely active, and it drove him nuts that he wasn't able to do the things he was used to doing without pain. Now he says he wished he hadn't wasted so much time before getting it done.
The recovery and physical therapy process is NOT fun. It really shook me up to see my dad grimace in pain, because he has always been so stoic. For the first couple of months, he wondered if he had made the right decision, but he was just being impatient with his recovery. Now that he has gotten through the recovery, he is so freaking happy with the surgery! No limp, no pain; just an occasional stiffness here and there. He's got his old, pain-free life back!
The most important thing for your dad to remember is that he must be patient with himself through the recovery and physical therapy, and follow his doctor's and therapist's directions to a T! My dad wanted to over-do the exercises, and that does more harm than good and slows down the recovery process. Also, be prepared for the pain to be much worse before it gets better during the first six weeks or so. But just know that it will be sooooo worth it once everything heals!
Sorry for the thread jack. It's tough to see your parent go through a painful recovery, but it will be fine! Just help him keep his spirits up during recovery.
Thanks Mrs Jam! I appreciate your input. He is having knee replacement surgery.
He was the same as your dad in that he has postponed this for so long(for over a couple of years now if you can believe it). He needs both knees replaced but the doctor is only going to do one at a time because of chance of infection rate being quadrupled if both are done at the same time. He was actually scheduled for last year but the week he was supposed to have the surgery he fell (because of his knees!) and he broke his hip so they had to do hip replacement that week instead.Thank goodness he handled that just fine but it is difficult because my dad is not in great health and he doesn't have a formal exercise routine. His exercise consists of running around after 2 little grandkids LOL. He has been finally using his cane over the last year since he just cannot walk without it but even getting him to do that was like pulling teeth (pun intended as he is a retired dentist
)
Thanks so much for taking the time to share your experience to alleviate my worries. I'm so glad your dad is doing well!
tuffyluvr|1321680094|3064999 said:Saoirse2|1321677342|3064976 said:Zujirushi BB-CEC20
K. Dagger Hallie wedge booties in leopard.
ETA: What a gorgeous little baby boy!
What's the Zojirushi BB-CEC20? I know they make rice cookers, thermos bottles, bread makers, pressure cookers, coffee makers, etc... Anyways, they make wonderful products. I bought a thermos from them a couple years back, and it is fantastic. It keeps liquids piping hot for HOURS!
Good luck to him!!! My dad had his done last year--one on the day before Halloween and then the other on the day after Xmas. His first one seems to be doing better than the second, but I think his recovery was so touchy on the first one that they did something different. I dunno. He was SO HIGH on Morphine I think he OD'd or something. He really was not himself, but the second time he was much more with it and in a lot more pain. Just make sure he DOES THE WORK. He has to do it or it isn't worth hving the surgery.missy|1321716695|3065159 said:Generac generator for our beach house.
And more importantly for my dad to have successful knee surgery and rehab (the Monday after Thanksgiving is his surgery date).
This is the main thing I want for the holidays. For my dad to come through it all OK. He's not young and I worry.
ame|1321731273|3065245 said:Good luck to him!!! My dad had his done last year--one on the day before Halloween and then the other on the day after Xmas. His first one seems to be doing better than the second, but I think his recovery was so touchy on the first one that they did something different. I dunno. He was SO HIGH on Morphine I think he OD'd or something. He really was not himself, but the second time he was much more with it and in a lot more pain. Just make sure he DOES THE WORK. He has to do it or it isn't worth hving the surgery.missy|1321716695|3065159 said:Generac generator for our beach house.
And more importantly for my dad to have successful knee surgery and rehab (the Monday after Thanksgiving is his surgery date).
This is the main thing I want for the holidays. For my dad to come through it all OK. He's not young and I worry.