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alli_esq

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Hi, experts!!

I am writing because I have very little money for a wedding ring, but I want a ring with diamonds (think beer budget, champagne taste), and to be more specific, I really would love to get a bezel eternity band (similar to the Tiffany Jazz).

My engagement ring is white gold, and although my center stone is an H according to the GIA my fiance gave me, I think he might have gotten taken for a ride, because now that I know a thing or two about diamonds (haha, but only a thing or two at most), I highly doubt I would see as much warmth in an H as I see in my stone. These are a few options I have and I ''d like some opinions:

1) Because I want to wear my wedding ring with my engagement ring, my first instinct is to want to see the diamonds in person before I make a purchase (since my center diamond is a "warm H" and I don''t want the wedding band to outshine the engagement diamond). My mom has an old engagement setting that she''s not wearing that has about 10 round ~.02/3 pointers (which are a good color in comparison for my engagement diamond) that she will let me use in a new setting. I went to my mom''s jeweler a while back, and he had a sorta fakey bezel, which I guess was sort of an illusion setting (though I can''t find one similar online to show you) that had what looked like a bezel but then the diamonds were held on there by little beads. All in all, using my mom''s diamonds and then a few more to complete the eternity, that would cost me $500 to be set in white gold.

2) I could try and find something online, like this: Ebay Bezel buut I don''t know if the seller is any good.

3) some creative response from you smarties!!
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The issue is that to get WF to do a ring similar to what I want would be more than double my budget (I need to stay around $500), and the other issue is that FI really isn''t one for jewelry, and my mom has a LOT of jewelry (I mean a ton) that I will inherit one day (though obviously HOPEFULLY not for a very very long time)--but an eventual upgrade is EXTREMELY unlikely because FI and I don''t have much money and possibly never will. I just want something that compliments my ering but that I can also wear separately if I want to, and has some sparkle of its own.

Any help? I''d appreciate it
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What size do you wear? This is something you could consider.

Have you checked Overstock.com. They may have something in your price range worth looking at and they
are returnable if it ends up not working out.
 
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ve that ring, ty!!! But I am a size 5.75/6, so I don''t think it would work...

and that is DEFINITELY a possibility, dani--thank you both so much for looking for me!!
 
oh I loooove that ring (even though I don''t normally love milgraining), but sadly, it''s sold
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thank you so much for keeping your eye out for me!!!
 
Oh poo.
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oh I have been looking at that ring too, sazza! My reservations with it, though, are that my rings tend to spin a lot and I would love to have a full eternity to avoid that...

it''s a GORGEOUS ring, though, and I LOOOOVE it with geckodani''s engagement ring--it looks perfect on her hand
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This would be a gamble (it being on eBay) but the seller has 100 percent positive feedback and it's exactly what you're looking for if legit...

Bezel Eternity Band 1 CTW
 
ohh, ebree!! Should I do it?!?! That DOES look perfect!

I need advice, everyone!!!!
 
Date: 5/1/2009 1:24:35 PM
Author: alli_esq
ohh, ebree!! Should I do it?!?! That DOES look perfect!

I need advice, everyone!!!!

I''d ask some questions first. Does he/she have a return policy if the band isn''t what he/she says it is? Get a feel for the seller.
 
I just wrote to the seller. CROSS YOUR FINGERS, FOLKS
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ETA: Thank you SOOOO much, ebree--you are wonderful for helping me!
 
You''re very welcome! Let us know how it goes.
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I''d definitely make sure there is some sort of return policy in place, but dang that''s a good deal on the ebay band!

And thanks for the shout out for my wedding ring. I''m still completely smitten with it in all it''s ''lil blinginess. It really doesn''t spin that much either, since it''s 3/4 eternity. I maybe center it a few times a day, but I''m always fiddling with my rings anyway.

I think Brian Gavin game Dreamer Daschie some nice quotes on a full eternity version too, which may be worth checking into and/or saving up for if that''s what you really want.
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Hi Alli-

Please check with Briangavindiamonds.com I was in the process of asking 1pointer 2 pointer and 3pointer... I asked for 3 pointer x11 bezel would cover the top of your finger (as they have a precast-- so no unusual custom charges) and their price depending on metals can be from $575 and upwards... I would definitely seek them out, your ering looks like the thickness of my ering or slightly wider (so I would recommend the 3 pointer which will finish about 3.2 mm ish), (you can also request H and I stones) to help bring the price down some... I hope that will help you at least. I have a 1 pointer right now, and I count 11 bezels to cover the top of my finger on size 4 finger, about 2mm width.
 
oh my gosh, I missed your great posts, ladies!! I''m so sorry!

gecko: that band looks sooo pretty! but of course they''re sold out of my size
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figures, right??? thank you so much for scopin it out though!

D&T: I wrote to them a couple of days ago and they are going to get back to me with a quote...thank you so much for the suggestion. I just love Brian''s work (see: Gypsy''s gorgeous new pendant!!!) Is there any chance you could post a picture of your band with your engagement ring? I would love to see it!!

Oh, and when someone posted the adwar website, I found a similar setting to the one I was considering for option one. I''ve attached the picture here...what do you think?? be honest!!

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I'm not loving the adwar one above.

Have checked Unique Setting of NY? I'm pretty sure BGD can get them in. And I would ask for I-J melee.
 
hmm, not really digging the prongs inside those bezel... sorry I just came across your post.. let me find my pics.and show you..
 
ok.. here is a pic remember,, my band is a 1 pointer... about 2.3mm in width,, (but I dont feel that it is tho?) must be an illusion or something because of the little amount of gold around the diamond. and my ering is about 3.3mm.. so I''m thinking a 3 pointer really would work beautifully... I think you''ll be happy with brian''s bezel 3 pointer... if you don''t mind not having an eternity, otherwise i think it will be over 1k... for the eternity, I"m still contemplating about the 3 pointer... just for fun now..
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Ditto on not digging the prongs in the bezels.
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Gypsy. You have just fed my obsession. Now I have another casting company to scope out.
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I just found this band on ebay... eternity,,, good price, and I've purchased from him before on other items and so have many pricescopers its a good quality...
bezel band...
 
yeah, I don''t dig the prongs in the bezel either...I just don''t think I can realistically afford the width I''m looking for with an eternity AND have a true bezel...and from far away (like a foot) that ring give the illusion of being a true bezel. Of course, I''m sure I''d have it for like a week and be over it.

Gypsy: thank you for the suggestions! I like the third one--I''ll look into it...the others seem pretty bulky to me...

D&T: I looove your set! so beautiful! I am really looking forward to finding out how much he will charge for a 3 pointer. I will consider not having an eternity, but I know I will always want one...we''ll see. I might just have to live with something I don''t particularly want because of my budget.

gecko: thanks again for your input!
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we probably posted at the same time,, did you see the bezel link to ebay?
 
ohhhh, D&T! I want that! that looks absolutely perfect! I''m worried that the diamonds will be too white for my ring tho...?
 
Date: 5/7/2009 4:08:38 PM
Author: alli_esq
yeah, I don''t dig the prongs in the bezel either...I just don''t think I can realistically afford the width I''m looking for with an eternity AND have a true bezel...and from far away (like a foot) that ring give the illusion of being a true bezel. Of course, I''m sure I''d have it for like a week and be over it.

Gypsy: thank you for the suggestions! I like the third one--I''ll look into it...the others seem pretty bulky to me...

D&T: I looove your set! so beautiful! I am really looking forward to finding out how much he will charge for a 3 pointer. I will consider not having an eternity, but I know I will always want one...we''ll see. I might just have to live with something I don''t particularly want because of my budget.

gecko: thanks again for your input!
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Alli..... I''m going to poke my nose in and say that I think you should save up for it. Even if it takes a long time. Even if you have to wear a plain band for a while. If you want a bezel eternity with 3 pointers - then save up and get a bezel 3 eternity with 3 pointers. Otherwise... you''ll always wish you had, at least in my experience.
 
Date: 5/7/2009 4:10:29 PM
Author: alli_esq
ohhhh, D&T! I want that! that looks absolutely perfect! I''m worried that the diamonds will be too white for my ring tho...?
hmmm,,, maybe they can change it to an I color? worth a try and get a quote... ?
 
Date: 5/7/2009 4:10:29 PM
Author: alli_esq
ohhhh, D&T! I want that! that looks absolutely perfect! I''m worried that the diamonds will be too white for my ring tho...?
I doubt it with the size of stones you''re talking about. I didn''t see that when I posted my previous message, so feel free to disregard!
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