ChloeTheGreat
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- Dec 25, 2009
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Ok, so. BF and I just passed our 6 year anniversary. We have had a rough last year and a half (unexpected job transitions, financial struggles, etc.) but our struggles have just made us more confident that we want a future together. We have been together since high school and have lived together for several years.
We were expecting to be able to purchase an engagement ring (it is something that WE are purchasing, as the money is all in the same place anyway) a few months ago, but things haven't come together yet as we'd hoped and the money just isn't there. We have a unique financial situation involving a substantial trust fund payment coming next summer that will be more than enough to cover the cost of my dream ring. So that's the plan. We are together and will get married. End of story. The ring is just a cherry on top.
I know other LIW's have said it's crazy to start planning a wedding before getting engaged, but to each her own. I'm doing it anyway.
We picked a date. October 15, 2011. Plenty of time to get engaged and plan a wedding.
I showed my mother some websites for possible venues, one of which happens to have an open house next weekend. My mother suggested we go.
So here I am, with a date in mind, thinking about venues, with no ring on my finger. Just thought I'd share.
Also, my parents never even had wedding rings, let alone an engagement ring. I'm not even sure there was even a proposal. But they had a happy marriage for 20 years. My parents had a courthouse wedding, my mom wore a floral dress that she sewed herself, and then her mother threw them a party and forgot to invite my dad's parents. Oops.
Different strokes for different folks.
We were expecting to be able to purchase an engagement ring (it is something that WE are purchasing, as the money is all in the same place anyway) a few months ago, but things haven't come together yet as we'd hoped and the money just isn't there. We have a unique financial situation involving a substantial trust fund payment coming next summer that will be more than enough to cover the cost of my dream ring. So that's the plan. We are together and will get married. End of story. The ring is just a cherry on top.
I know other LIW's have said it's crazy to start planning a wedding before getting engaged, but to each her own. I'm doing it anyway.
We picked a date. October 15, 2011. Plenty of time to get engaged and plan a wedding.
I showed my mother some websites for possible venues, one of which happens to have an open house next weekend. My mother suggested we go.
So here I am, with a date in mind, thinking about venues, with no ring on my finger. Just thought I'd share.
Also, my parents never even had wedding rings, let alone an engagement ring. I'm not even sure there was even a proposal. But they had a happy marriage for 20 years. My parents had a courthouse wedding, my mom wore a floral dress that she sewed herself, and then her mother threw them a party and forgot to invite my dad's parents. Oops.
Different strokes for different folks.