by Delesh » Aug 19, 2008 I had everything planned perfectly. I had all the little details worked out including getting a reservation at a very exclusive restaurant and picking out the exact place I was going to ask her. Now she tells me that she is too busy with work to go out that night I am not sure what to do now. I can''t tell her how important it is otherwise she will know something is up as it was just supposed to be a nice night out together. I can''t feel mad because she is working really hard and would go if she could. I''ve already kind of upset her by begging her to try to make it so I don''t think I should push any more for that night. Plus, if she is going to be super tired and stressed from work I don''t want to ask on that night anyway. I guess its back to the drawing board. I just really can''t wait to ask her! Well, at least I can be sure she wasn''t expecting the proposal. Now that my plans are totally trashed I am thinking of doing it on our little upcoming vacation. She will be expecting it though so I am not sure how I can pull it off while still making it a surprise. Any thoughts?