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Thrilled...... my daughter wants a ring !!!!!!!!

Bron357

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Unlike me, my daughter has sub zero interest in jewellery.
I was 8 when I saved for a year doing extra chores to buy a horseshoe shape ring with a tiny tiny ruby in it. It cost me $13. I bought my first diamond ring at 14. Again, I saved and saved did extra chores like no tomorrow and bought it at auction for $120, a fortune to me at the time. Of course I still have both rings.
My 16 year old daughter has her first formal coming up. She also has zero interest in fashion and makeup etc.
Her dress she found online $50 and her shoes $25 (and here I am ready to run off to a designer and go “create something magnificent!!!). We won’t be doing hair either, she shaved her head completely for “Shave for a Cancer cure” and it’s barely a Pixie cut length (she raised $5,000 btw).
She looks lovely in her dress, Sapphire blue.
Then she said it...... I THINK I NEED SOME JEWELLERY !
Her friends are wearing stacking rings in silver with CZ or similar - do I have anything like that. “It can’t have cost more than $20” she says.
I smile and hand her a fine white metal band ring studded all the way around with little crystals.
Perfect she says, “how much did it cost you when you bought it.”
$12 I say and that’s no lie.
It’s not my fault that the secondhand shop I bought it from thought it was junk costume jewellery. Once the solid gunk on the inside was cleaned out It was actually an antique platinum eternity ring with diamonds all the way around. I knew it wasn’t cheap base metal, I could just see the remains of the floral design on the edges and it’s weight told me it wasn’t just junk metal.
I’m converting her to the “bright and shiny side” sssshhhhhhh
 
I love this story, Bron! I think she sounds like a fantastic girl who is slowly finding her feet in life with taste. And wow regarding shaving her head for charity! I think she sounds amazing & I'm sure she will glow from the inside at the prom. With a little extra sparkle from her hand, of course :sun:
 
That’s such a touching story! Your daughter has a big heart, I’m sure you are proud of her! Congratulations to raising her like that!
 
HI:

Cool story! Happy ending!

cheers--Sharon
 
Your daughter sounds like she's got a good head on her shoulders. You must be very proud of her. Congrats!
 
@Bron357 Your daughter sounds like a BEAUTIFUL young woman!!! You must be so proud of her. I don't have children but I have nieces I'm close to. Some like jewelry, some don't. At the end of the day as long as they are healthy, happy, kind and can be self sufficient, everything is wonderful in my eyes. Many women don't really get into jewelry until their forties. Your daughter may be one of them LOL.
 
Bron357, You are a girl after my own heart!
I adore your stories of loving jewelry from a young age! My dad bought me my first ring when I was in 1st grade, and I was off to the races. I have not stopped since.
I, too, have some great thrift store/yard sale finds that are some of my best pieces. It's not my fault that the thrift store/yard sale didn't know that it wasn't costume jewelry! I took some heat on this forum for that once, but I stand my ground on the issue.
It sounds like you have an awesome daughter, and I hope she inherits your love for jewelry very soon!!
 
A17DE5A0-26DA-4D5E-890E-F470FBFB3CC9.jpeg 2E06C52D-9801-4A09-B9AE-8995A078BD58.jpeg Thank you, yes I’m quite proud that she is growing into a lovely young woman. And she donated her long hair to the people who make wigs for children who lost their hair due to chemo.
 
You should be proud of yourself, you brought up such a sensible and generous and kind young lady! I hope she has an amazing time at the formal :)
 
Sweet girl! I was like you with the early love for jewelry!

I'd tell her that ring is worth more than you paid, though, so she doesn't just think it's junk and lose it or something!
 
Your daughter ROCKS! What an awesome person. I would love to be her friend and I would love her to be my daughter’s friend. Hope she has a great time and enjoys her $12 accessory. ;)2
 
Sweet girl! I was like you with the early love for jewelry!

I'd tell her that ring is worth more than you paid, though, so she doesn't just think it's junk and lose it or something![/QUOTE
My daughter has a “zero” loss record! Even in junior school she would find lost / forgotten lunchboxes and jumpers, track down the owner and return them. But no, she’s not a perfect angel, her room mostly looks like a pigsty, she says “WHAT” too much and isn’t as helpful around the house as she should be (I have homework !) but all in all, she is a special treasure.
 
Your daughter sounds extremely cool and confident. Enjoy this time with her.
 
Bron357,
I was in the same boat, my daughter (19) wasn't really interested in jewelry, which killed me. Then this year she has changed. Thank God, now I can leave her my stuff and not worry it will be sold off.
I got her a cognac colored diamond last year and had it set in a ring for Christmas, she wears it occasionally then I got her an antique yellow gold diamond ring for graduation in June and she wears it daily. Now she follows me around to the jewelry departments when I go shopping and sits and looks at all my gems with me. I love it!!
 
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