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@Ella
In the last 18 months or so I see many post from members asking if they can post X, Y, or Z without getting:
1. Moderated
2. A time out
3. Banned

Granted Ella, when you are notified with the @ symbol you are really good about clarifying the policies.
But not everyone sees each of your policy clarifications.
Why? Because each is inside one thread, and few of us read everything posted.
IIRC, you've also stated that neither do you.

So unfortunately many of your important policy clarifications do not reach all of us.
Therefore you end up having to repeat yourself, annoying & a waste of your time.
But maybe there's a way to, if not eliminate, reduce that extra repetitive work.

I understand that revising the official Forum Policy section below to make it thoroughly comprehensive and bulletproof for every situation is impossible.
Yet here we are, after all your clarifications (in threads), with members still posting that they are not sure of what they are allowed to post.
Or worse, avoiding the risk and just not posting. :nono:

These are very stressful and challenging times for everyone, but expressing ourselves is good for our mental health, and for bonding as a community.

But many here are still unsure or confused on exactly what's allowed to avoid getting moderated/banned.
And many have left PS for places where they can speak their mind.
MIAs are not good for PS's future.

Idea: What if there was a pinned thread at the top of every sub-forum that is a collection of all of the rule-clarifications you've posted in the last 18 months?

I realize assembling it would take time.
But perhaps there is software (or AI?) that can collect all your clarification posts.
At least this would reduce the number of clarifications you would have to go through to assemble this new pinned thread.

Of course, others are welcome to offer their ideas here too.

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Or just create a basement or steam room where enter at your own risk is vigorously upheld and keep Hangout a happy place. I don't think PS is obligated to satisfy the needs of all posters but when the world is continually upended, people feel the need for a space to blow off steam and PSers feel safe doing that here where the community spirit is overall more kind and forgiving than it is in forums specifically dedicated to political and other contentious issues.
 
Or just create a basement or steam room where enter at your own risk is vigorously upheld and keep Hangout a happy place. I don't think PS is obligated to satisfy the needs of all posters but when the world is continually upended, people feel the need for a space to blow off steam and PSers feel safe doing that here where the community spirit is overall more kind and forgiving than it is in forums specifically dedicated to political and other contentious issues.

+ 1 Billion everything Matata stated above.

Many of us have known each other on this site for years. As far as the internet goes, this is for many of us our safe spot. It’s tame here, we all know that. That’s why we want to discuss things here.

With all the chaos in the world right now it’s a great feeling to be able to talk freely with people who aren’t family or close friends and share opinions. If people don’t want to be involved in these conversations they can leave the thread. We are all adults.
 
I'm nervous discussing certain things
I'm a conservative and as much as I want to shear my opinion I need friends more
Recently I upset someone here who thought I was being anti American and that really hurt me
 
I'm nervous discussing certain things
I'm a conservative and as much as I want to shear my opinion I need friends more
Recently I upset someone here who thought I was being anti American and that really hurt me

Daisy, you are more valuable than the diamonds of which we speak!

@Ella, I'm going to side with your current policies regarding politics. There are so many forums where people can argue, demean and bully posters in the name of politics that I find this forum refreshing. I don't want to squelch the voice of others, I just want a sane spot in the world to enjoy a beautiful subject, diamonds.

It is fun to watch others enjoy beautiful jewelry and read the excitement in their posts for the item they were able to secure or for which they had yearned so long. I have also learned so much about jewelry on this site that it has been a wonderful treat for me.

I hope you keep the course and others take the opportunity to post on forums where politics are ground down to the nitty gritty daily and then come here for their peaceful holiday. My humble opinion..
 
Daisy, you are more valuable than the diamonds of which we speak!

@Ella, I'm going to side with your current policies regarding politics. There are so many forums where people can argue, demean and bully posters in the name of politics that I find this forum refreshing. I don't want to squelch the voice of others, I just want a sane spot in the world to enjoy a beautiful subject, diamonds.

It is fun to watch others enjoy beautiful jewelry and read the excitement in their posts for the item they were able to secure or for which they had yearned so long. I have also learned so much about jewelry on this site that it has been a wonderful treat for me.

I hope you keep the course and others take the opportunity to post on forums where politics are ground down to the nitty gritty daily and then come here for their peaceful holiday. My humble opinion..
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that is almost exactly what one of the mods said on my Springsteen forum -just with out the bling talk
 
@Daisys and Diamonds, People can get passionate about how they view differing political positions. If someone not agreeing with how you feel is upsetting to you, it’s probably best for you to stay out of certain discussions. We are all adults. Not everyone has to agree with everything we feel. No one here would purposely hurt you. You are one of the kindest people here.

There are threads on Pricescope I avoid. Not every thread has to appeal to every member.

There is a lot happening in the US right now. Many of us feel It’s good to talk, share opposing views and don’t want these threads shut down for the simple reason that we feel comfortable having these discussions with each other.
 
I'm nervous discussing certain things
I'm a conservative and as much as I want to shear my opinion I need friends more
Recently I upset someone here who thought I was being anti American and that really hurt me

Nicky I’m very sad that people here have taken your voice. Please know I’m here for you and support your right to post your thoughts regardless of whether they are “acceptable” to the majority of psers. They’re trying to silence us all but that is unacceptable in every way.

However I agree with you. Psers say they want to hear opposing views but in reality they do not. They’d rather preach to the choir than open their minds and learn other perspectives
 
I'm calling BS on all of this.

Nicky I’m very sad that people here have taken your voice.
No one here took Nicky's voice. She made the decision not to share her opinions and gave her reasons for doing so.

Please know I’m here for you and support your right to post your thoughts regardless of whether they are “acceptable” to the majority of psers. They’re trying to silence us all but that is unacceptable in every way.

Who is trying to silence you all? When have you been silenced here unless one of your posts was deleted because it broke a rule?

Psers say they want to hear opposing views but in reality they do not.

Opinion stated as fact. Dismissed. You're suggesting that everyone who made that claim are liars.

They’d rather preach to the choir than open their minds and learn other perspectives

Opinion stated as fact. Dismissed. A different opinion does not indicate a closed mind. A majority opinion does not indicate a closed mind. People can learn about other perspectives and still disagree with them. Do you agree with every perspective voiced by every Pser? My opinion about Psers differs significantly from yours. I think Psers are generally a welcoming, tolerant, well informed and savvy group of people about a lot of things other than jewelry and that's what makes and keeps this place dynamic and interesting. Calling Psers with whom you disagree close-mind liars is the antithesis of the spirit of PS.
 
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@Daisys and Diamonds, I would never ever try to silence you or anyone else. I sincerely hope you know that. If my post bothered you I will ask Ella to remove it.

I wish nothing but the best for you and Gary. I know how hard this past month has been for you both.

@Matata, I am assuming Missy is referring to me. It was never my intent to silence Daisys or anyone else.
 
@Matata, I am assuming Missy is referring to me. It was never my intent to silence Daisys or anyone else.

If I read Nicky's post correctly, she was referring to being hurt by someone who called her anti-American. Perhaps she'll come here to clarify.

If you're referring to your post where you advised her to disconnect from discussions that upset her then I consider that good advice. She doesn't have to follow it.
 
@Matata, The post I wrote above is the one I referring to. Thank you for your response. I reread my post a few times and fail to see how I was trying to silence anyone. I didn’t think I said anything wrong. I offered to have Ella remove the post if it bothered Daisy. That’s all I can do.
 
@Daisys and Diamonds, I would never ever try to silence you or anyone else. I sincerely hope you know that. If my post bothered you I will ask Ella to remove it.

I wish nothing but the best for you and Gary. I know how hard this past month has been for you both.

@Matata, I am assuming Missy is referring to me. It was never my intent to silence Daisys or anyone else.

You are fine dear @Calliecake I promise
I just don't do confronting at all well and I don't like when my friends fall out
I know if we were all part of the same social group it would all work out but on paper (well the internet ) its so hard and fast where as in person it mostly isn't if that makes sense

As for Gary they just gave him a painkiller opioid oxy something to change the negative pressure bandage
He is having a really bad reaction to it and is so grumpy
The hospital ambulance arrived to take us home and he said he was home
and he has been roaring at me
They had to get the floor Nurse manager who got the doctor
Who he told to FO
they all very nice
Poor Gary is so tired now
He can't take codeine for this reason
I was crying
I think he's staying tonight
 
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Nah - my chips are betting on it was referencing the “buyer beware purchasing as a non American from the US” thread
 
If I read Nicky's post correctly, she was referring to being hurt by someone who called her anti-American. Perhaps she'll come here to clarify.

If you're referring to your post where you advised her to disconnect from discussions that upset her then I consider that good advice. She doesn't have to follow it.

Oh year that's right
But honestly I don't even remember who that was
I'm pretty forgiving and don't have a good enough memory to hold grudges unless it involves my home town rugby or cricket team

I Tend to like Amsricans no matter who they vote for
Actually our governments no matter right or left try really hard to get along with America
 
As for Gary they just gave him a painkiller opioid oxygen something to change the bandage
He is having a really bad reaction to it and is so grumpy
The hospital ambulance arrived to take us home and he said he was home
and he has been roaring at me
They had to get the floor Nurse manager who got the doctor
Who he told to FO
they all very nice
Poor Gary is so tired now
He can't take codeine for this reason
I was crying
I think he's staying tonight

Gracious, you had a horrible day. I hope you're able to take a bit of time for yourself and treat yourself to something that can help ease your stress like a nice hot bubble bath and a cup of tea with a little splash of something extra extra in it.
 
And for the record I don't want to see any Anericsn lives lost in war
During the Iraq war on TV we saw the US flag drapped coffins coming home that you often didn't see
It was heartbreaking
But in saying that I supported what little NZ did do to help (we did have fatalities) I just wish we had helped a bit more

I would certainly support NZ support of anything that was needed with the present situation but right now I think we are just trying to help get our people home

You can read through the lines what country I support in all this but I have had these views since I was 12 years old reading time magazine in the school library

My apologies if I have overstepped the rules
 
Gracious, you had a horrible day. I hope you're able to take a bit of time for yourself and treat yourself to something that can help ease your stress like a nice hot bubble bath and a cup of tea with a little splash of something extra extra in it.
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...except I need to call a plumber to fix the hot water
Except I have to be home to have a plumber come around
It's something simple Gary normally does because of how hard our water is but he knows this time he can't do it
And I'm either going to or from the hospital or I'm at the hospital
I really want a hot shower
This morning I took a bucket of hot water I boiled in the jug in there !
 
@Daisys and Diamonds, Thank you for your post. Oh you and Gary really had a rough day. Did they end up keeping Gary in the hospital? I’m sorry Daisy. Hopefully he will get some sleep and feel better when he wakes up. They will probably try a different medicine to control his pain. Some people have weird reactions to pain meds. Have the doctors given you an idea when he should start feeling better? Are you feeling a little better now that he is more calm. It’s scary when someone you love is going thru all this.
 
@Daisys and Diamonds, Thank you for your post. Oh you and Gary really had a rough day. Did they end up keeping Gary in the hospital? I’m sorry Daisy. Hopefully he will get some sleep and feel better when he wakes up. They will probably try a different medicine to control his pain. Some people have weird reactions to pain meds. Have the doctors given you an idea when he should start feeling better? Are you feeling a little better now that he is more calm. It’s scary when someone you love is going thru all this.

Thank you

Turns out he has a raging temp and high blood pressure
Just as well we didn't go home
They having trouble as usual getting blood
They testing for infection. Covid and flu
We had covid 2 months ago
He is on really strong antibiotics for his wound
He was fine this morning
I'm sick with worry now
 
I’m sorry you have all of this to deal with.
Poor Gary, I hope they get him sorted out soon.
Take care of yourself as best you can.
Warm hugs and healing vibes.
 
@Daisys and Diamonds, I’m sorry. I know you are scared but please know it’s good they kept Gary in the hospital. He is in the best place right now. They will get him IV antibiotics and watch him closely. You have said good things about this hospital. They are taking good care of him. Are you at the hospital? Sending you hugs.
 
@Daisys and Diamonds, I’m sorry. I know you are scared but please know it’s good they kept Gary in the hospital. He is in the best place right now. They will get him IV antibiotics and watch him closely. You have said good things about this hospital. They are taking good care of him. Are you at the hospital? Sending you hugs.

Thank you
He is back from theater
He got an ice block (popsicle) from them even though he didn't have a general
He is becoming himself again
They have him on iv paracetamol- I forget what you call that- to reduce temp than he will have fluids
He is having his antibiotics shortly
Not sure what's wrong with him but the lab works all night
And the chemist and the cleaners
All work so hard
We are moving to a single room
Some one said today for such a small town we have a lot of sick people but the hospital seems pretty well appointed for most things otherwise they fly you to wellington
 
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I’m sorry you have all of this to deal with.
Poor Gary, I hope they get him sorted out soon.
Take care of yourself as best you can.
Warm hugs and healing vibes.
Thank you
The cats haven't had their tea (dinner) and I didn't turn the front door light on
I'm assuming I'll go home once we find out what the blood tests come back as
 
I'm.so sorry I forget what thread I'm on
Way to much excitement
He just pulled the line out the anathethesiologst just put in
This is a high risk of fall room of four so a heath care assistant is in herev24 7 but she was with another fellow in the next bed
I realized what he was doing when it was already pushed gave me a tissue to hold against it and went running to getnthe nurse while I rang the bell
Two nurses and a student nurse came running in
He is ok. They dressed it.hope they don't need any more blood
After discussion They are still moving him to a single room but the health care assistant is coming with him
 
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