After some consideration, I relized that all of you were right. I decided that a big wedding wasn''t really that important to me, and just being his wife was sufficient enough. We were getting a couple thousand more dollars on our income tax return that we originally expected to so I suggested that we use it to get married. I figured that we could fly somewhere and have a beautiful, low key, inexpensive wedding on a beach somewhere. Well, he said that to do that it would be more than a couple of thousand dollars. Instead, he booked a trip to Disney World. So I figured that he did that because it was one of my favorite places, and that he would propose or something. We got back yesterday, NOTHING happened. After everything was said and done we spend more than the couple thousand anyway. Should I be upset? Now I feel that I am making comprimises, and he is still giving excuses.