I'm looking for a 3.5 carat shared prong wedding band with round stones all the way around. Tiffany showed me a beauty for $14,500, average H and VSI. I've looked everywhere and have gotten prices from $2,500 up to $12,500 on Bluenile for an ideal cut. Local place today showed me white gold, 4.21 carat weight, H and VS2 for $10,000. Leon Megre (sp?) gave me a quote for a 3.5 at $6,500 for an H and VS1..nothing about cut. Help!!!! The Tiffany certainly sparkled. I've read on the Leon M site that platinum is the only way to go. Since the jewelers seem to only talk about H and VS1...how can I find out if the cut is a great cut? Confused!!! Also...a few choices for the setting...if I order online..how do I know the setting is comfortable? tia.