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Sizzle

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My grandfather died this morning. Its brought me tremendous overwhemling sandness. He was my last grandparent. It just seems like life is going so fast, and losing him is hard for me to wrap my mind around. I feel selfish for even saying that. He was 81. That''s a long full life..

To make matters worse, none of his affairs are in order. There is debt, it''s unknown where the valid life insurance policy is and his papers are a MESS. My family is NOT wealthy, and although everyone is "making it" the expense of a funeral might be overwhelming. I am getting ready to list my RHRs on DB in hopes of getting some quick cash to contribute, and although that too makes me sad, they are material things that in the big scheme of life, I didn''t need.

Please, if your affairs aren''t in order, get them that way. Its so hard for our family to grieve and worry at the same time.
 
I''m so sorry to hear about your grandfather, Sizzle. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, your family, and your grandfather. I hope that your worries will be eased soon.
 
I am so sorry for your loss. I''m sure your grandfather would be very proud of your efforts to help your family. I wish you peace as you work your way through this loss.
 
Sizzle: Please accept my condolences for your loss.

And thank you for the reminder that we don''t organizing our earthly affairs just for ourselves, we also do it for those we love.
 
I am so sorry to hear that. Please don''t feel like what you were saying is selfish at all. No matter what age he was, it is so hard to lose someone you love. My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
I am so sorry for your loss. Here on PS we talk about rings and such all the time, but what you said is very true. They are just material things at a time like this. I wish there was something I could do to ease your pain and worry.
 
I am soo sorry to hear about your grandfather, Sizzle. May he rest in peace and may your family find comfort during this difficult time.
 
Sending you my thoughts and some positive vibes, sizzle. I''m very sorry for your loss, and hope that your worries and sadness are short lived.
 
I''m so very sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))
 
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family Sizzle!
 
sizzle- im so sorry to hear of your loss. take it day by day, and know that we are all thinking of you...((((HUGS))))

thank you also for the reminder for people to get their advance directives taken care of! i see people in this situation too often, and although it isn''t the most pleasant subject to talk about, it is necessary to make things go smoother for all!
 
So sorry to hear about the loss of your grandfather, Sizzle.
 
Oh dear, I''m very sorry for your loss Sizzle
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I am sorry about your loss Sizzle...and I hope your family can get things sorted out too...it can''t be easy. Hugs.
 
I am sorry, Sizzle. Your grandfather''s age does not make you miss him any less; loss is loss. I hope that your happy memories of him and the love of people to whom you are close will help to support you during these difficult days.

Hugs,
Deb/AGBF
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Sizzles, my condolences to you and your family. May his wonderful memories live on in all of your hearts.
 
Sizzle,
I am so sorry for your loss. I know how important a Grandfather can be, and this will be most hard for you. He''d be so proud of your efforts going foward. He leaves a great legacy in YOU. You have my deepest sympathy.
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((((HUGS)))) Lisa
 
Thank you all so much for your thoughts and kind words. I feel so overwhelmed today.. it''s definately going to be a long week. I am greatful to pricescope today because its giving me a distraction..
 
Sizzle, know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
 
I just wanted to say that I''m so sorry. Loss is never easy, and I''m sure this insurance situation doesn''t help. Hopefully everything will be worked out so you and your family have time to process the loss and grieve in a healthy, non stressful way.
 
Sorry for your loss Sizzle. Condolences to your family at this sad time.
 
Oh dear, I am so sorry to hear about your grandfather! My heart goes out to you. I am very close to my grandfather, and I know it will crush me when he passes away.
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Sizzle... my english is not good and I prefer to talk to you in french...

Je suis désolée d''apprendre le décès de ton grand-papa. Reçois mes plus sincères sympathies et toute mon affection afin de t''aider à passer au travers de cette lourde épreuve.
 
so sorry to hear about your grandfather.My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
It is so sad when you have no grandparents left. Please accept my condolences.
 
I'm so sorry, sizzle
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. I'll be thinking of you and your family, I hope affairs get resolved quickly and smoothly for everyone.
 
My condolences. I hope his affairs get straightened out soon.
 
I''m sorry to hear about your loss and I hope you find the papers you need to make all of this just a little bit easier... (((hugs)))
 
I am so sorry sizzle. These things are so difficult. With time, I wish you peace in your heart and many fond memories of
your grandfather.

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I''m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
 
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