My grandfather died this morning. Its brought me tremendous overwhemling sandness. He was my last grandparent. It just seems like life is going so fast, and losing him is hard for me to wrap my mind around. I feel selfish for even saying that. He was 81. That''s a long full life..
To make matters worse, none of his affairs are in order. There is debt, it''s unknown where the valid life insurance policy is and his papers are a MESS. My family is NOT wealthy, and although everyone is "making it" the expense of a funeral might be overwhelming. I am getting ready to list my RHRs on DB in hopes of getting some quick cash to contribute, and although that too makes me sad, they are material things that in the big scheme of life, I didn''t need.
Please, if your affairs aren''t in order, get them that way. Its so hard for our family to grieve and worry at the same time.
To make matters worse, none of his affairs are in order. There is debt, it''s unknown where the valid life insurance policy is and his papers are a MESS. My family is NOT wealthy, and although everyone is "making it" the expense of a funeral might be overwhelming. I am getting ready to list my RHRs on DB in hopes of getting some quick cash to contribute, and although that too makes me sad, they are material things that in the big scheme of life, I didn''t need.
Please, if your affairs aren''t in order, get them that way. Its so hard for our family to grieve and worry at the same time.