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Brilliant_Rock
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My ring size constantly changes due to the temperature and other variables I'm unsure of. When I first got engaged it fit perfectly, then became snug. But then, it started fitting again and was even a bit loose (without weight loss, go figure). And now, my finger turns red when it's on, it's so tight. It goes back and forth between a 5.75 and 6.5 (or even 7 maybe).
I've been thoughtful as to not re-size it until after I have kids (hopefully within the next few years) since I don't want to constantly re-size and compromise the integrity of my ring. I'm super sentimental and never want the shank to get messed up or too thin, as I never want to reset or upgrade. I am open to multiple rings though. I am confused because my ring size continues to fluctuate.
I got a larger sized 7 stone ring to wear and resize as it's not as sentimental, but recently that got snug too (with everything going on, I forgot about the free 1 year resizing).
Any suggestions to what I should do? Do you think I should just buy multiple engagement rings and bands in multiple sizes given my finger size fluctuations?
Also, as my ER is around $50K, is it too risky to mail it back to where DH got it from for resizing? Or should I find a local jeweler?
I've been thoughtful as to not re-size it until after I have kids (hopefully within the next few years) since I don't want to constantly re-size and compromise the integrity of my ring. I'm super sentimental and never want the shank to get messed up or too thin, as I never want to reset or upgrade. I am open to multiple rings though. I am confused because my ring size continues to fluctuate.
I got a larger sized 7 stone ring to wear and resize as it's not as sentimental, but recently that got snug too (with everything going on, I forgot about the free 1 year resizing).
Any suggestions to what I should do? Do you think I should just buy multiple engagement rings and bands in multiple sizes given my finger size fluctuations?
Also, as my ER is around $50K, is it too risky to mail it back to where DH got it from for resizing? Or should I find a local jeweler?