random_thought
Brilliant_Rock
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So I was trying to find the thread about caring for elderly parents but could not find it so apologies in advance if this is in the wrong place.
Long story short- my mom had a stroke about 7 weeks ago. It affected the left side of her brain and she is working on physical therapy. She has been set to be released about 5 times now but something keeps coming up. She also has cancer and has been receiving for chemo for that and has diabetes as well. This is the update my dad gave us today and I was hoping somebody here might have some advice. I'm about 1500 miles away from them or I'd be there talking to the doctors as well.
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Another frustrating day at the hospital. They took R for an xray of her upper body to see if the shunt was collapsing. I informed them there were no shunts in R.
They insisted there was. I insisted to go along. When we got there, the xray technician wanted to know why I was there and I said to observe what you do. She said I could not be there, I told her I would be there. We had a few more words.
I went in. They did and xray from R's brain to her lower abdominal cavity.
Guess what, no shunt.
So I said, is it clear or would it show up like the tube from her portal. They said it would show up like the tube from her portal. So I said, humm
The doctor was upset when we back. I informed him he was not as upset as I was. I asked where he got the information that R had a shunt in her lungs. He just looked at me.
Ten minutes later another doctor showed up and I explained what had happened. He blamed it on a computer glitch. I told him I was not talking to a computer, but to the doctor who was examining her lungs.
We got that straighten out at 2:00. From 8:30 until 2:00 they kept insisting there was a stunt.
Any suggestions on how to handle these people.
R was exhausted.
Long story short- my mom had a stroke about 7 weeks ago. It affected the left side of her brain and she is working on physical therapy. She has been set to be released about 5 times now but something keeps coming up. She also has cancer and has been receiving for chemo for that and has diabetes as well. This is the update my dad gave us today and I was hoping somebody here might have some advice. I'm about 1500 miles away from them or I'd be there talking to the doctors as well.
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Another frustrating day at the hospital. They took R for an xray of her upper body to see if the shunt was collapsing. I informed them there were no shunts in R.
They insisted there was. I insisted to go along. When we got there, the xray technician wanted to know why I was there and I said to observe what you do. She said I could not be there, I told her I would be there. We had a few more words.
I went in. They did and xray from R's brain to her lower abdominal cavity.
Guess what, no shunt.
So I said, is it clear or would it show up like the tube from her portal. They said it would show up like the tube from her portal. So I said, humm
The doctor was upset when we back. I informed him he was not as upset as I was. I asked where he got the information that R had a shunt in her lungs. He just looked at me.
Ten minutes later another doctor showed up and I explained what had happened. He blamed it on a computer glitch. I told him I was not talking to a computer, but to the doctor who was examining her lungs.
We got that straighten out at 2:00. From 8:30 until 2:00 they kept insisting there was a stunt.
Any suggestions on how to handle these people.
R was exhausted.