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Brilliant_Rock
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- Feb 27, 2006
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I was with my ex for 5 years and we got engaged long distance 1.5 years of being together.
We split up in 2004 because I came back home and he had work commits and refused to move to my country.
I felt all alone and isolated in England, I couldn''t take it and I had just grown up and had different wants and priorities.
I still have the e-ring, I never really wanted to get rid of it, but I know I''m never going to wear it again so it''s a waste sitting in a jeweler box for the past 3 years. I am now selling it, I listed in on a site today, finally I just decided, why hold on to it? It doesn''t really disgust me to see it or evoke bad memories of a failed relationship, it kinda reminds me of being young and crazy in love with a forbidden love. Kind of good memory to be young and crazily in love. It''s a token of the history of my life. Of course some people don''t see it that way.. I know I''m weird!
My b/f certainly doesn''t see it that way. He doesn''t ever want to see it, and I don''t blame him.
I thought hey maybe I''ll give it to my daughter when she''s older and tell her the story about how wild stupid crazy mommy was and she could have been a dual citizen of America and England.. but then I think well..... it isn''t really an heirloom to really pass down, kinda strange to even think of doing that.
Maybe I''m just an overly sentimental person?
If it sells it sells
We split up in 2004 because I came back home and he had work commits and refused to move to my country.
I felt all alone and isolated in England, I couldn''t take it and I had just grown up and had different wants and priorities.
I still have the e-ring, I never really wanted to get rid of it, but I know I''m never going to wear it again so it''s a waste sitting in a jeweler box for the past 3 years. I am now selling it, I listed in on a site today, finally I just decided, why hold on to it? It doesn''t really disgust me to see it or evoke bad memories of a failed relationship, it kinda reminds me of being young and crazy in love with a forbidden love. Kind of good memory to be young and crazily in love. It''s a token of the history of my life. Of course some people don''t see it that way.. I know I''m weird!
My b/f certainly doesn''t see it that way. He doesn''t ever want to see it, and I don''t blame him.
I thought hey maybe I''ll give it to my daughter when she''s older and tell her the story about how wild stupid crazy mommy was and she could have been a dual citizen of America and England.. but then I think well..... it isn''t really an heirloom to really pass down, kinda strange to even think of doing that.
Maybe I''m just an overly sentimental person?
If it sells it sells