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monarch64

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Hi everyone, I usually don't post threads like this, but I've just had a call from my mother who's told me that my Dad collapsed at Starbucks this morning and is now in the hospital with pneumonia in one lung. He's responding well to antibiotics and is doing ok, but I'm worried. He will be 73 in a few months but was diagnosed with colon cancer at age 64 and has been through an insane amount of treatment and surgeries. He's been in remission for several years, and has remained very active (still goes to work every day at one of his businesses, mows the lawn, is an avid gardener), but I know that pneumonia can be very dangerous to someone with compromised health and who is getting on in years.

I'm not religious and don't pray, but very much respect others' faiths and customs, so by all means, if you think it's helpful and supportive, please do pray for him. Positive thoughts and PS dust would also be very appreciated.

My mom is home now getting some rest (apparently they've had some sleepless nights), and we can't visit him because the underlying cause (bacterial or viral) is unknown and we have a 13.5 month old baby.

When I first joined PS, my dad had been diagnosed with cancer at 64, and one of his fascinations in life is the Monarch butterfly, hence my screen name. He hasn't always been the best father, but he's a good person whose shown me a lot of generosity and taught me a lot whether it was life skills or just tough love. We don't always see eye to eye, but I have a lot of respect and love for him and I really hope that he recovers quickly and gets back to enjoying life and his two young granddaughters (his pride and joy) again.

Thank you.
 

Dee*Jay

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Monnie, big hugs outoging to you and your family.
 

Mayk

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Sending prayers for your dad... I hope he's better soon!
 

monarch64

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Thank you Dee*Jay and MayK. I've put the baby down for a nap and am going to go add a little more paint to a canvas I have in the works so I don't sit here on PS and cry. I'll check back soon, and update this thread as I learn more about his condition.
 

04diamond<3

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Aw, praying for you and your family Monarch! Will be checking back for your updates.
 

packrat

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Sending lots of good thoughts and dust to your dad, Monnie!
 

diamondseeker2006

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I will pray for his full recovery, Monarch!
 

Smith1942

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Monarch, I am so very,very sorry to hear about your dad's illness. It is terrible to watch a loved one suffer, isn't it. I am thinking of you a lot. Sending you positive vibes :)

Here's a cyberhug. (((((Monarch)))))
 

Enerchi

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Thinking positive healing thoughts for you're dad, monarch. Dust dust dust that he has a speedy recovery
 

Efe

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Dust and prayers for your dad. How frightening that he collapsed. It sounds like good news that he is responding well to the antibiotics. Hope you get to see him soon.
 

canuk-gal

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HI:

Healing vibes across the miles......

kind regards--Sharon
 

missy

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Sending you bucketloads of PS****DUST**** for your dad and big hugs to you Monnie. I will keep you and your dad and your whole family in my thoughts and prayers.
 

dragonfly411

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Monarch, I am so sorry your father has been through so much. I'm keeping all of you in my thoughts.
 

tyty333

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Lots of positive healing vibes...he must be a very strong person to deal with cancer but still work, mow and garden. Hopefully it
will turn around soon.
 

AprilBaby

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Prays for a speedy recovery for your dad!
 

Catmom

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Monnie, my most positive healing thoughts are going out to your father! I hope he has a safe and quick recovery.
 

tammy77

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Thoughts and prayers for your dad's health and strength for you during this stressful time. Big hugs!
 

maccers

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Hi monarch,

I'm sending positive thoughts your way. I can relate to what you're going through. My dad (70 yo) just got over pneumonia a few weeks ago and he's been in remission from colon cancer for 4 years too. It took some time for the meds to really kick it but the pneumonia did go away. The fact that he's active will go a long way to helping him get over the pneumonia -- he sounds like the type of person who has a positive and strong mindset. Keep us updated.
 

princesss

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Thoughts and prayers to your dad and your family, Monnie.
 

zoebartlett

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Thinking of you and your family, Monnie. I hope your dad feels much better soon.
 

JewelFreak

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All sorts of good & healing thoughts coming your dad's way from here, Monnie. Tough time for all of you -- so sending some Good Dust to your family too. And big hugs! Keep us informed, we care.

--- Laurie
 

lliang_chi

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Lots of thoughts for your dad.
 

Rosebloom

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Prayers, positive thoughts and dust to you and your family.
 

Kaleigh

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Sending lots ot prayers, vibes and positive thoughts his way...
 

marcy

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Monnie, my thoughts are with you and your family. I hope he is feeling better soon.
 

lulu

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Praying that your dad is well and home soon!
 

isaku5

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Hugs and prayers for your dear dad, Monnie. :))
 

lyra

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Hoping for a quick recovery for your dad, Monarch. Take care.
 

luv2sparkle

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Many prayers for your Dad, Monarch. Also for your mom who will be taking care of him when he gets home!
 

jaysonsmom

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Prayers for healing going out to your dad! My dad is the same age as yours, and I'm always worried about every little health complaint of his, even a little toothache, so I know how you feel. Stay strong, Monarch
 
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