Elizabeth35
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I am struggling with this one. And I will admit upfront that I am older (61).
I found out that a 'wedding' I attended was for a couple who was already legally married.
But---it was a secret. They played off the wedding as them getting married, when it was actually just the celebration.
So, do you think it is wrong or deceitful to invite people to a wedding when you are already married? And keep it a secret?
It doesn't pass the sniff test for me. I was happy to go celebrate but I am not comfortable with the duplicity.
Maybe I am too old fashioned?
I get people doing a courthouse wedding for military deployment or health insurance reasons and doing a big wedding later. But is it right to keep it a secret?
I found out that a 'wedding' I attended was for a couple who was already legally married.
But---it was a secret. They played off the wedding as them getting married, when it was actually just the celebration.
So, do you think it is wrong or deceitful to invite people to a wedding when you are already married? And keep it a secret?
It doesn't pass the sniff test for me. I was happy to go celebrate but I am not comfortable with the duplicity.
Maybe I am too old fashioned?
I get people doing a courthouse wedding for military deployment or health insurance reasons and doing a big wedding later. But is it right to keep it a secret?