Would the side of this ring bother you??? I had this setting custom made and I love it except I am a little OCD and the sides bother me. I wear two rings together and they are both platinum. I like the look of the sides but the patina look bothers me. Am I being crazy and if I were to change the bottom of the ring what could I do? I tried a spacer band and hated that look so that isn't an option. Thank you in advance!