Hey guys, I've just been following the forum last week and learned a bit. I have a few questions about diamond and what not. But first let me quickly begin my personal background.
1. Girlfriend jokes around to me that diamond cost should be 3-months salary. But I know she'll accept anything.
Anyways, if this is tradition, does anyone know is that referring to 3-months gross salary or after tax salary?
2. Ok, let's get the fun started. I went to Ben Bridge (yeah crappy place I know) but met a very nice gentlemen who showed me some diamonds. I also brought my girlfriend along just to try some out. She has a size 4.0-4.25 finger. It turns out that 2.0 carat round looks really bad on her finger. Quite tacky since it's so big. 1.5 seems like the perfect size. So 1.5 it is.
3. My budget is around $15-20k for round brilliant. I can stretch a little more if necessary but would probably have to go on some payment plan.
I first used Blue Nile but found their prices quite high. I then discovered pricescope and B2C Jewels as well as James Allen.
Question 1: When I saw the rotational pictures on JA diamonds with ideal cut and IF clarity, I noticed that I didn't see the proper "star" facets like I did when I was at the mall at Ben Bridge. At BenBridge the salesman showed me a perfect signature ideal through a microscope. I could see perfectly shaped star-facets. On jamesallen.com, Is this because the angle of the pictures is wrong? Would all Ideal Cut plus IF clarity have that perfectly symmetric star-looking facets that I saw? Obviously, many of the star legs are either broken or missing in the JA pictures.
Question 2: I'm pretty sensitive to color and I know she is too. She has many friends and cousins who are already getting engaged and I can't help but say that if these girls put their diamonds together, it would obviously be noticeable who's diamond is better. Kind of like putting 10 apples together and you can easily tell which one's better looking than the other as opposed to just seeing one apple. So that brings me to the question that , I would like to maximize where it makes the most sense: color (possibly D to F) and cut (for sure must be ideal). I know they say you can go as low as SI1 or SI2 and be safe, but when I saw even some VS1 and VS2, the imperfections bothered me a bit. I almost wanted to go IF/FL.
Question 3: What's up with the "True Hearts" or "A Cut Above" diamond from WH and JA. Are these marketing gimmicks or are they even better than GIA/AGS "ideal" rating?
Question 4: At any time would any inclusions(VS2 and above) cause the light performance of the diamond to degrade, or affect the "true hearts" of the diamond to appear?
So to recap, it looks like with my budget, I can only get:
1.5 carat
Ideal Cut
F color
Flawless clarity
~$20k
So am I getting ripped off or can I do better?
Thanks
-Richard
P.S. I have very sensitive eyes. So even browsing through JA, I can immediately tell just by rotating the pictures, between color D and F. There's a hint of yellow and with my Dell UltraSharp 24" monitor, it clearly displays it.
1. Girlfriend jokes around to me that diamond cost should be 3-months salary. But I know she'll accept anything.

2. Ok, let's get the fun started. I went to Ben Bridge (yeah crappy place I know) but met a very nice gentlemen who showed me some diamonds. I also brought my girlfriend along just to try some out. She has a size 4.0-4.25 finger. It turns out that 2.0 carat round looks really bad on her finger. Quite tacky since it's so big. 1.5 seems like the perfect size. So 1.5 it is.
3. My budget is around $15-20k for round brilliant. I can stretch a little more if necessary but would probably have to go on some payment plan.
I first used Blue Nile but found their prices quite high. I then discovered pricescope and B2C Jewels as well as James Allen.
Question 1: When I saw the rotational pictures on JA diamonds with ideal cut and IF clarity, I noticed that I didn't see the proper "star" facets like I did when I was at the mall at Ben Bridge. At BenBridge the salesman showed me a perfect signature ideal through a microscope. I could see perfectly shaped star-facets. On jamesallen.com, Is this because the angle of the pictures is wrong? Would all Ideal Cut plus IF clarity have that perfectly symmetric star-looking facets that I saw? Obviously, many of the star legs are either broken or missing in the JA pictures.
Question 2: I'm pretty sensitive to color and I know she is too. She has many friends and cousins who are already getting engaged and I can't help but say that if these girls put their diamonds together, it would obviously be noticeable who's diamond is better. Kind of like putting 10 apples together and you can easily tell which one's better looking than the other as opposed to just seeing one apple. So that brings me to the question that , I would like to maximize where it makes the most sense: color (possibly D to F) and cut (for sure must be ideal). I know they say you can go as low as SI1 or SI2 and be safe, but when I saw even some VS1 and VS2, the imperfections bothered me a bit. I almost wanted to go IF/FL.
Question 3: What's up with the "True Hearts" or "A Cut Above" diamond from WH and JA. Are these marketing gimmicks or are they even better than GIA/AGS "ideal" rating?
Question 4: At any time would any inclusions(VS2 and above) cause the light performance of the diamond to degrade, or affect the "true hearts" of the diamond to appear?
So to recap, it looks like with my budget, I can only get:
1.5 carat
Ideal Cut
F color
Flawless clarity
~$20k
So am I getting ripped off or can I do better?
Thanks
-Richard

P.S. I have very sensitive eyes. So even browsing through JA, I can immediately tell just by rotating the pictures, between color D and F. There's a hint of yellow and with my Dell UltraSharp 24" monitor, it clearly displays it.