fieryred33143
Ideal_Rock
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I think most of you remember the story I posted. I don''t have the links anymore.
Long story short, she was always an "all about me" person. When she was planning her wedding, she put a lot of demands on me to call her vendors, help her pick out dresses, dedicate my weekends to her, etc. I got pregnanty about a month before her wedding and for those last few weeks wasn''t around as much as she would have liked me to be. So she yelled and cursed at me in front of 90% of her wedding guests during her rehearsal dinner.
Since then we have had very limited contact. We separated for a few months then got together for dinner and a movie. Separated again then got together during Halloween. That was the last time I saw her and I''ve spoken to her maybe twice since then.
I sent her an email yesterday to ask how she was doing and also ask if she wanted to get together this weekend to see Alice in Wonderland (we both love Johnny Depp and had talked about going together to see the movie once it was released).
She called back to say they are divorcing. He is emotionally and verbally abusive. He spits on her almost daily. Says horrible things not worth repeating on here. She told him she''ll be moving out May 1. She''s actually moving in two weeks to San Diego.
After I got off the phone with her, I cried. I felt so horrible for her. She''s an old friend and even though she''s incredibly selfish at times, it hurts me to know that she has been going through so much heartache lately.
I also feel kind of empty. She is the first friend I had when I moved here 10 years ago. We''ve been through a lot together. She''s moving so far away and the reality that I may never see her again hit me hard.
Anyway, thought I''d update since I know some of you remember the story.
Long story short, she was always an "all about me" person. When she was planning her wedding, she put a lot of demands on me to call her vendors, help her pick out dresses, dedicate my weekends to her, etc. I got pregnanty about a month before her wedding and for those last few weeks wasn''t around as much as she would have liked me to be. So she yelled and cursed at me in front of 90% of her wedding guests during her rehearsal dinner.
Since then we have had very limited contact. We separated for a few months then got together for dinner and a movie. Separated again then got together during Halloween. That was the last time I saw her and I''ve spoken to her maybe twice since then.
I sent her an email yesterday to ask how she was doing and also ask if she wanted to get together this weekend to see Alice in Wonderland (we both love Johnny Depp and had talked about going together to see the movie once it was released).
She called back to say they are divorcing. He is emotionally and verbally abusive. He spits on her almost daily. Says horrible things not worth repeating on here. She told him she''ll be moving out May 1. She''s actually moving in two weeks to San Diego.
After I got off the phone with her, I cried. I felt so horrible for her. She''s an old friend and even though she''s incredibly selfish at times, it hurts me to know that she has been going through so much heartache lately.
I also feel kind of empty. She is the first friend I had when I moved here 10 years ago. We''ve been through a lot together. She''s moving so far away and the reality that I may never see her again hit me hard.
Anyway, thought I''d update since I know some of you remember the story.