Amzizzle
Shiny_Rock
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I''m not an LIW anymore,but I still love hanging around this forum...so here is what I just heard.
My DF''s sister had been dating this guy for a couple years,he is 24 years old and she is 30 years old (I''m 24 two,so don''t think
I''m judging ages I''m just trying to set the scene.) She has been on the baby and marriage track since I met her 5 years ago,it''s
all she wants and I get the feeling there is a lot of pressure involved in that.When I first met the boyfriend he said he didn''t
have his cell with him because he lost it drunk at a party and apparently this had happened a few times that year...So they have a
couple major breakups and then eventually move to Colorado together.What I just found out though is that she said to him "If we
live together in Colorado for a year,then we get married". So we all just visited them for a bit in Colorado and they were
fighting like cats and dogs,not just in private but in front of us
so after the trip we found out they were over,I guess
my concern was that she put this marriage agreement pressure on him.He obviously to me and everyone else who met him came off as
pretty immature,but she expected him to just POP! be ready for marriage?
What do you think about this? Would you do this? It seems different from just setting a timeline,but more like a deadline if that makes sense.
My DF''s sister had been dating this guy for a couple years,he is 24 years old and she is 30 years old (I''m 24 two,so don''t think
I''m judging ages I''m just trying to set the scene.) She has been on the baby and marriage track since I met her 5 years ago,it''s
all she wants and I get the feeling there is a lot of pressure involved in that.When I first met the boyfriend he said he didn''t
have his cell with him because he lost it drunk at a party and apparently this had happened a few times that year...So they have a
couple major breakups and then eventually move to Colorado together.What I just found out though is that she said to him "If we
live together in Colorado for a year,then we get married". So we all just visited them for a bit in Colorado and they were
fighting like cats and dogs,not just in private but in front of us
my concern was that she put this marriage agreement pressure on him.He obviously to me and everyone else who met him came off as
pretty immature,but she expected him to just POP! be ready for marriage?
What do you think about this? Would you do this? It seems different from just setting a timeline,but more like a deadline if that makes sense.