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would it be appropriate if I gave you a hug?
 
You specifically, or someone you're meeting from an online forum in general? ;)
 
If it's me, it's okay. We're buds. :bigsmile:

And here in the Lone Star state, we're kinda friendly anyway. I would definitely "hug your neck" as we say in these parts.
 
Ditto sonny. What do you mean? I give hugs. I think I hugged everyone I met at the GTG unless they looked like they really didn't want to be touched. Or if I don't think I've ever talked to them before. In that case, I shook hands.
 
Not me - I'm not much for indiscriminate hugging.
 
In our family and social circle if you do not hug when you meet, they think something is wrong or you are mad at them. So fine by me.
 
sonnyjane|1372125974|3471737 said:
You specifically, or someone you're meeting from an online forum in general? ;)
yes!
 
Sure, but I warn you - I pretty much marinate in Eau du Liberal every morning, some might rub off on you. ;))
 
ksinger|1372128757|3471775 said:
Sure, but I warn you - I pretty much marinate in Eau du Liberal every morning, some might rub off on you. ;))


*snort* :lol: :lol:
 
I was surprised how many ladies, even men, hugged me when first meeting me in Vegas.
I'm okay returning a hug but try to not initiate hugs, especially with women without asking.
I try not to initiate because others may return a hug when they'd really rather not.

IMO, hugs should be mutual and consensual, just like ... oh never mind. :oops:
 
kenny|1372129680|3471787 said:
I was surprised how many ladies, even men, hugged me when first meeting me in Vegas.
I'm okay returning a hug but try to not initiate hugs, especially with women without asking.
I try not to initiate because others may return a hug when they'd really rather not.

IMO, hugs should be mutual and consensual, just like ... oh never mind. :oops:


That's cus it's you, Kenny. How can we resist NOT hugging you?
DF on the other hand… ;)) JK
 
madelise|1372129772|3471788 said:
kenny|1372129680|3471787 said:
I was surprised how many ladies, even men, hugged me when first meeting me in Vegas.
I'm okay returning a hug but try to not initiate hugs, especially with women without asking.
I try not to initiate because others may return a hug when they'd really rather not.

IMO, hugs should be mutual and consensual, just like ... oh never mind. :oops:


That's cus it's you, Kenny. How can we resist NOT hugging you?
DF on the other hand… ;)) JK


Hahaha.
DF, wants all the PS ladies but I get them. :lol:
 
No problem. My patients hug me all the time and I don't really know them either!
 
kenny|1372129864|3471792 said:
madelise|1372129772|3471788 said:
kenny|1372129680|3471787 said:
I was surprised how many ladies, even men, hugged me when first meeting me in Vegas.
I'm okay returning a hug but try to not initiate hugs, especially with women without asking.
I try not to initiate because others may return a hug when they'd really rather not.

IMO, hugs should be mutual and consensual, just like ... oh never mind. :oops:


That's cus it's you, Kenny. How can we resist NOT hugging you?
DF on the other hand… ;)) JK


Hahaha.
DF, wants all the PS ladies but I get them. :lol:
A gay man get all the beautiful women... ;(
 
ksinger|1372128757|3471775 said:
Sure, but I warn you - I pretty much marinate in Eau du Liberal every morning, some might rub off on you. ;))
That's what I'm afraid of... :lol:
 
Yes because I am fond of most PSers! I am a hugger when I like someone so watch out! Though I will add I am very sensitive to cues so if I feel someone is not a hugger I will not initiate.
 
I've lived in the UK too long so nope, please don't hug me. We're not touchy-feely over here. If you were female and American, then I'd be much more okay with it.
 
I hugged Kenny..... Where's the "nananana" emocotion? :bigsmile:

DF we know you are Asian...we don't know how tall.... You might only come to my belly button if I'm in heels...
 
missy|1372152095|3471889 said:
Yes because I am fond of most PSers! I am a hugger when I like someone so watch out! Though I will add I am very sensitive to cues so if I feel someone is not a hugger I will not initiate.

I wish I were more sensitive to cues - I am an unabashed hugger. I really should be more concerned about offending someone with unwanted hugging. ::)

I would hug EVERYONE on PS. I think I've already hugged everyone on PS from Perth, so that's a start. Wait until I finish this bloody degree and get to LV for the big meetup. I won't have time to eat, for all that hugging there is to be done. :lol:
 
I'm also pretty sensitive to social cues, so I tend to hug discriminately based on those cues. At the GTG, I was too busy oogling all of the gorgeous jewels to hug anyone! :bigsmile:
 
Sure, I'd be fine with it!
 
Mayk|1372157238|3471903 said:
I hugged Kenny..... Where's the "nananana" emocotion? :bigsmile:

DF we know you are Asian...we don't know how tall.... You might only come to my belly button if I'm in heels...
I'm 5'8" so I'll bring a ladder.. :bigsmile:
 
Of course! It feels like we already know each other!
 
I like hugs, so yes.
 
Of course. Have known you for a long time!! Would be weird if you gave me a hand shake, LOL... :cheeky:
 
No I wouldn't. I would never hug a man I just met as I find it to be inappropriate since I'm married and don't know you well. However, I would hug you if you were a woman I just met as long as you weren't giving me the evil eye.
 
I'm not a hugger by nature or upbringing, but I'm also not going to recoil theatrically from people who are (though if they're creepy about it, I'm going to make a point of having my hands full of hot coffee when we meet forever after). But I *am* always surprised by how many people react to my holding my hand out to shake with a kind of "Pshaw!" and a deep hug. Do people not shake hands anymore? Is it seen as a sign you're not really friends? :sick:

P.S. - I also just do the man-hug back-clap, or I just feel like I'm pressing my boobs on people for no good reason. Just me? You know, it's like a shoulder to opposite shoulder bump with some back-patting for good measure ....
 
madelise|1372127073|3471746 said:
Ditto sonny. What do you mean? I give hugs. I think I hugged everyone I met at the GTG unless they looked like they really didn't want to be touched. Or if I don't think I've ever talked to them before. In that case, I shook hands.
yeah, I gave hugs too! If someone doesn't look like a person that hugs then I respect that. I will say if I don't know someone then I won't give a hug though. lol
 
Mayk|1372157238|3471903 said:
I hugged Kenny..... Where's the "nananana" emocotion? :bigsmile:

DF we know you are Asian...we don't know how tall.... You might only come to my belly button if I'm in heels...

Mayk, is a hugger! She is a complete sweetheart too!!! Her and her hubby are Adorable! :halo:
 
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