JennWit2Ns
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jul 8, 2004
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- 15
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over 2 years. He is 34 and I am 28. We talk about marriage all the time and he has said to me once he gets his job with the FDNY that it would be soon afterwards. He landed the job a month ago. He is usually the one that brings up the wedding topic, but the last 2 weeks or so he hasn''t and i''m certainly not. 2 weeks ago he was suppose to take me to NYC for the afternoon (south street seaport and empire state bldg), but at the last minute he changed his mind and when I say last minute, I mean we were walking out the door and he asked if we can go next weekend. Upset and disappointed I said fine. The next weekend (last weekened) came and went as he canceled on going again. Now he says we will go this sunday. at this point i''m not holding my breathe, but I find it weird cause he doesn''t cancel on me unless an emergency occurs. I''m thinking, or more along the lines of hoping that he keeps canceling because maybe the ring isn''t ready yet or he''s not finished paying it off. FYI-I know for a fact that he has the diamond and he''s had it since February. I know cause he told me. Any opinions, good or bad would be helpful and maybe ease my tension headache i''ve had for 2 days now.