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Rough_Rock
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Sorry this is long:
So I'm on a quest to find the best eyeclean diamond 4500 dollars can buy and there are several observations I've made from dealing with multiple vendors over the last few weeks. Check out my previous posts for a recap.
1) They all push me towards EGL certified diamonds.
My lead off statement in the store is always that cut is my priority and that everything else is based on my impression, but cut must be certified. With each dealer, the first stone they told me they loved and "would have sold already" is an ideal cut, eyeclean G or H EGL diamond. When I start to tell them that I would rest easier with a GIA certificate, they push harder in many different ways.
One jeweler told me that 80% of the public in my town wear EGL stones and don't care about the difference. Is that supposed to be reassuring? I don't think the 80% is spending as much time researching. Doesn't 80% of the public also carry credit card debt, and 50% of newlyweds get divorced...don't give me that percentage crap.
I'm not a public idiot. I'm a novice jeweler buyer expecting to be taken advantage of and I don't want to hear percentages because they make your sales pitch sound trite and overpolished (no puns).
One jeweler lined up 4 diamonds with varying certification (1 GIA, 1 AGS, 1 EGL, 1 uncertified) and had my girlfriends (fiancee soon
) sister pick out her favorite. She was there to help me with the mounting. He gave us a loupe for in the store and then walked us outside to see the varied responses to natural light, etc. To his delight, she picked the EGL stone. He said, "that's all the certification you need". Well he is right that they all were beautiful...and honestly the difference was not that noticable. But if I can find that same ideal G SI2 online for 4200 dollars with a GIA, why would I pay the same for a less respected certificate. Also, the ideal GIA and AGS stones he chose had much larger inclusions...which I would suppose was part of his plan to show the lack of importance between certifications. Did you not think I would notice?
I must admit, I completely understand being satisfied with a beautiful stone, regardless of certification. I know that a little sheet of paper shouldn't come between one's love for their love's choice. I buy off-brand clothing and thrift store bargains. I use off-brand golf equipment (the ball is what matters!
) and when I get my oil changed I use the cheapest fluid possible. But a diamond is unique. it's a one time choice that should symbolize my care and concern for my fiancee and our future. The chance of being fleeced by a jeweler only shrinks with more knowledge...and everything I have read tells me that the GIA and AGS are more respected, thorough, and accurate than the EGL. Somebody has to be paying for all of those shiny track lights and security system updates!
2) Once we move past the EGL certification thing, the change in their demeanor as saleperson's are amazing. They seem to be more honest, and almost defeated in their previous attempts to push off an EGL stone in my direction. It's like, oh well...I can sell the next schmuck an EGL stone, but this guy really won't settle for anything less than GIA or AGS. It's really weird because it's happened to all 3 of the jewelers I'm working with. Am I imagining this? I trust all 3 of them (don't cringe) for seperate personal reasons.
When I share prices online, a few of them use varied arguments to say that buying online is unsafe and undependable.
a) They say that the salepersons' have never seen the stones I am asking about. From what I've read...wrong.
b) They say that there is no warranty. From what I've read...wrong.
c) They say that there is an paysite online database (that jewelers pay for) that lists the purchase price of every diamond and that he can show me how much they are ripping people off.
I don't know about this one. I should have asked him to show it to me. Do any of you know about this?
My main question is...how does the profit margin for EGL compare to GIA or AGS as a seller? Was it a coincidence that they all seemed so flattened after I said that I needed GIA or AGS?
Also, are any of my aforementioned conclusions flawed? I don't want to be cementing bad conclusions...so if there is anything I have come up with or shared that you think I am wrong about...please help me out. I'm just trying to find a winner for my lady!
Thanks for your help,
Essequamvideri
So I'm on a quest to find the best eyeclean diamond 4500 dollars can buy and there are several observations I've made from dealing with multiple vendors over the last few weeks. Check out my previous posts for a recap.
1) They all push me towards EGL certified diamonds.
My lead off statement in the store is always that cut is my priority and that everything else is based on my impression, but cut must be certified. With each dealer, the first stone they told me they loved and "would have sold already" is an ideal cut, eyeclean G or H EGL diamond. When I start to tell them that I would rest easier with a GIA certificate, they push harder in many different ways.
One jeweler told me that 80% of the public in my town wear EGL stones and don't care about the difference. Is that supposed to be reassuring? I don't think the 80% is spending as much time researching. Doesn't 80% of the public also carry credit card debt, and 50% of newlyweds get divorced...don't give me that percentage crap.

One jeweler lined up 4 diamonds with varying certification (1 GIA, 1 AGS, 1 EGL, 1 uncertified) and had my girlfriends (fiancee soon

I must admit, I completely understand being satisfied with a beautiful stone, regardless of certification. I know that a little sheet of paper shouldn't come between one's love for their love's choice. I buy off-brand clothing and thrift store bargains. I use off-brand golf equipment (the ball is what matters!

2) Once we move past the EGL certification thing, the change in their demeanor as saleperson's are amazing. They seem to be more honest, and almost defeated in their previous attempts to push off an EGL stone in my direction. It's like, oh well...I can sell the next schmuck an EGL stone, but this guy really won't settle for anything less than GIA or AGS. It's really weird because it's happened to all 3 of the jewelers I'm working with. Am I imagining this? I trust all 3 of them (don't cringe) for seperate personal reasons.
When I share prices online, a few of them use varied arguments to say that buying online is unsafe and undependable.
a) They say that the salepersons' have never seen the stones I am asking about. From what I've read...wrong.
b) They say that there is no warranty. From what I've read...wrong.
c) They say that there is an paysite online database (that jewelers pay for) that lists the purchase price of every diamond and that he can show me how much they are ripping people off.
I don't know about this one. I should have asked him to show it to me. Do any of you know about this?
My main question is...how does the profit margin for EGL compare to GIA or AGS as a seller? Was it a coincidence that they all seemed so flattened after I said that I needed GIA or AGS?
Also, are any of my aforementioned conclusions flawed? I don't want to be cementing bad conclusions...so if there is anything I have come up with or shared that you think I am wrong about...please help me out. I'm just trying to find a winner for my lady!
Thanks for your help,
Essequamvideri