I want a 75 person wedding. Between my fiance and i, we have a lot of friends and I want them all there. the problem is my fiance has a large family, 95% of which he never talks to or has seen in years. i have a big family but am only inviting those that really are family and not just genetically related . He says he has to invite all of his family. That puts us about 25 people over. I just don''t know how to make him understand that it''s not worth the money. What do you guys think? Am I being unreasonable by telling him he needs to cut out family memebers