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Queenie60

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I am getting a puppy on June 12th. She's a Shih Tzu and will be 7 weeks when I bring her home. I have a 14 year old Maltese, haven't had a puppy for 14 years. What types of chewy sticks would you recommend and any other advise you can offer to me. I know the basics, I will need potty pads a bed, a harness and a few other things. I appreciate any advise you can give to me. Thank you. Q
 

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Omg where do I start!!!

The last time I raised a pup was 11 years ago!!!!!

I think my biggest lesson was to watch them like a hawk in the house when toilet training. My pup was attached to my belt via a leash so she could never run off to have an accident.

Socialise in a safe way. I used to take mine out on garbage day, got her to sit calmly and feed her treats when a loud garbage truck went by. Same with thunderstorms, blenders, loud machinery. She's got rock solid nerves because of this.

I'm not sure where you stand on this but I always made sure mine could handle a variety of food. It was too toughen up their tummies so they could eat lots of different things without getting sloppy poops. We needed this for our lifestyle.

I also never packed stuff away and liked to work with the notion that pups should be watched 24/7 and taught not to destroy our stuff rather than we hide our stuff. Just made life easier in the long run because I'm a messy person. If course that meant lots and lots of supervision.

Can you get things like natural dried tendons for pup to chew on? I like that much better than those treats that they compress together.

Mine loved: bully sticks (dried bull penis), cows ears, kangaroo tendon, cow tendon, beef jerky, goat horn

Most importantly: PUPPY PICTURES PLEASE!!!!!!!!
 

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Happy Falling In Love!

I kept my puppy in a crate next to my bed and took her out during the night when she wimpered. It was exhausting, but it worked for me. She was eight weeks old.

And had her tied to my belt as mellowyellowgirl suggested. Never let them run free without paying 100% attention. And never punish. Just show what you want. Puppies are smart and want to do the right thing. They have little to no bladder control as babies so punishing for accidents is cruel.

Also, I had mine meet at least 100 people in the first month. This will be hard to impossible for you to do at this time, but as much socializing as possible is good.

You puppy is beautiful!
 

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@Queenie60 Oh totally gorgeous girl, congrats! :kiss2: Have you thought of any names yet? PS'ers on standby ready to help! :cool2:
 

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Your pupper is so freaking cute!!
All brilliant advice re toilet training and keeping them under close supervision so they can’t get themselves into trouble and introducing them to lots of new situations so they are ok with change.
For our pugs what I wish we’d done differently was have them get used to maintenance like claw clipping, face wrinkle cleaning and tooth cleans early. They’re demonic when it comes to the claws and not great with the others. So that’s the main advice I have for you. Make sure that handling is as low stress and easy for them and you as possible. Lots of positive reinforcement - dogs want to make you happy so use that to your advantage
 

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Aww @Queenie60, your puppy is precious. She is a beauty. Congratulations.:appl:
I hope your newest family member brings you much love and joy. She is a lucky girl being adopted by your family. :love:
 

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I second the early acclimation to gentle and purposeful handling the paws, teeth, face and ears for grooming, not as an indicator of rough play.
Early socializing is great, unless you are concerned about communicable diseases puppies are prone to before their shots.
Some breeders are pretty strict about this.
Puppy kindergarten is great.
Sigh- puppy breath!
Congrats! Am jealous, but just a little. No more puppies for me, only older dogs if we ever get more.
 

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How adorable @Queenie60 I had a Shih Tzu years ago. Such a sweet breed. What a fabulous time to bring a puppy home too. You are home to house train and it's warm, weather wise.
My only advice at this time is give lots of love and socialization. Lots of trips outside with bounds of positive reinforcement for job well done! My parents had a kennel growing up and we never used pee pads. I think its best to start off letting the pup know where they should go without confusing them with those. JMHO, of course. I agree to handling the pups paws and face to acclimate them to being handled during grooming.
I would also introduce a leash early on as well. Most of all, enjoy your new bundle of joy and please share lots of pictures with us!!
 

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We took our boy out every 2 hours and stayed out until he did his business (once he was allowed to go out). He almost never had accidents. To transition from wee wee pads to the out doors, I brought the wee wee pad outside and placed it where I wanted him to do his business. Took two or three tries. We crate trained, with the crate in our bedroom. He could see me. He never had an accident in his crate, and only cried the first night.

I also started basic training immediately after he came home at 8 weeks. Very quick study.

Adorable baby. Enjoy!
 

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Awwwwwwwwww Queenie, she's Adorable!!!! Congrats!!!!! xoxo
 

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We want to see heaps more photos when she arrives!!!
 
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Many thanks to the advise. All good! As for names, we are thinking - Maggie May or Gracie or Goldie. Any other cute names are welcome! I am excited!
 

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My current dog, a Yorkie, arrived to us when she was five months old. We were told she was puppy pad trained and would only occasionally have an accident on a throw rug or something. I should have listened more intently to the ‘throw rug or something’. She came in early January when it was bitter cold and she was tiny. The puppy pad thing worked some of the time and the rug thing worked most of the time. I was also taking her outside. I think some habits had be ingrained though and she had multiple places to go. In hindsight, I would have taken up all the rugs and trained outdoors only. She was a nightmare to train! She is now seven and does go outdoors and on a pee pad house I bought from Amazon. When we are not home, however, she will still pee on a throw rug. I had a poodle and a Yorkie previously and they were both trained well. I just think she started out older with too many mixed signals about where it was ok to go. We would take her out of the crate and outside. You could sit out there till the cows came home and she would run inside and squat on the rug!! She still gets treats for getting it right but is still stubborn as a bull about it at times. Hopefully you will know ahead of time which method you want to use and will be able to be consistent with it.
She is adorable - God made them that way so you would still love that sweet face even when they get it wrong!! Lol! Please take lots of pics for us and good luck!!
 

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Congratulations!
 

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Uh....the groomer. We took our boy early. Long before he needed a haircut so that the first experience wouldn’t be traumatic. We should have started brushing his teeth immediately after his adult teeth came in, but did not. Big mistake.
 
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I am so glad I decided to share this with all of you. Such a wealth of advise - your information will make the transition an easy one. I do have a14 year old Maltese, very well house trained and am hoping he can help out in this area! He's a calm boy and I am positive that he will welcome a puppy into our home. Fortunately, the layout of our home will allow me to separate them at times should I deem necessary, a puppy can annoy an older dog with the constant need to play. Quincy wants to sleep most of the day and only gets up to eat and potty. We walk him in a stroller, he will be able to participate with leash training! Keep the advise coming! Thank you PS friends.
 

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OMG she is so cute.

My dogs like the keys chew toys but they must be made in China because they are hard to find right now.

They also like the firehose chew toys from pet smart.
 

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Congratulations on you new puppy! She is beautiful!!!! We got a puppy (golden doodle) last summer after not having a puppy for years.....We had a few adult rescues who oddly were completely potty trained. Puppyhood was quite a shock to my system, but tons of fun! We crate trained, used a leash(indoors), socialized everyday (mostly on walks), introduced new experiences as much as possible-walking on grass, asphalt,stone,rug,wood,noises,car rides etc. Puppy school is awesome. Remember their bladders are not truly neurologically mature until 9 or so months. I joke that we train ourselves more than we train them! It was all so totally worth it. Our Leo is a sweetie. Good luck, enjoy and have fun. Best puppy product is "Stomp Pads" for pee clean ups....
 

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I agree with the advices given above re the potty training. Typically, dogs won't soil where they sleep, that's where crate training comes in handy. Keeping them attached to you helps you know when they're making movements to relieve themselves and that's the time to scoop them up and take them outside. Having treats handy when they do the right thing is great because dogs learn by association.

As a groomer, I concur with @rocks. Puppies have a socialization period which starts at birth and ends at about 16-18 weeks of age. ANYTHING you want them to be comfortable with for life should be introduced to them a time or four during this period, including intro puppy grooming, vet, other friendly doggies, children, car rides, etc. Take treats everywhere with you so you can hand them out to those you are introducing the baby to. This makes everything a positive experience.

As for tooth brushing, there are toothpastes out there that are enzymatic, meaning they don't necessarily have to be scrubbed on to the teeth, they can just be introduced into the mouth and it will help avoid plaque buildup. Doing it before bed, or after the last treat of the day, works well. They are flavored so once you find one she likes, you're good to go.

One of the most important decisions you'll make will be what to feed. There are two brands on the market that start with human grade ingredients: The Honest Kitchen and Stella & Chewy. They are typically not available at PetSmart or Petco, but they should be available at your local Feed and Supply store. My preference is Honest Kitchen, they have a dehydrated and a kibble, I use both. I try to stay away from chicken-based foods as that is the #1 allergen in dogs due to the super-heavy antibiotic and hormone use in nearly all commercial chicken. You can buy HK in small sample packs so you can dial in which one she likes, and I am a believer in switching things up to keep their stomachs able to adapt to different foods. Personally, I cook for my dogs every week, and we can discuss that if you wish, but that does NOT provide a balanced diet, and balance is critically important. Dr. Karen Becker advises that adding real food to a dog's diet can reduce future health issues by up to 90%, so that's DEF something to think about.

Try not to spay your baby until she's over a year old. She NEEDS those sex hormones and many dogs develop endocrine issues over the course of their lives because they are devoid of those hormones and their adrenal glands, which can produce a small amount of sex hormones, become overworked over time trying to keep up with the body's needs.

Congratulations on the gorgeous addition to your family! I'm excited for you and look forward to seeing pictures of her at home. :kiss2:
 

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Awww! She's adorable, @Queenie60

We've had several wonderful terriers (Jack Russell, Smooth Fox Terriers) and on the advice of our vet, we hung a "bear bell" beside the door. We trained them to ring the bell when they needed/wanted outside. It worked a charm, once they figured it out. It didn't take them long to train us, LOL! When they'd ring the bell, we'd run to let them out.

My DH installed a little dog-door in the screen door for summer use so the dogs could come and go at will into the backyard. On one occasion, our sweet JRT rang the bell in a very urgent manner. My DH vaguely recalled that he'd left the screen door open, but we both dashed to the door, regardless. There was our little darlin', outside in the yard, with her head, shoulder and one front leg inside, wildly ringing the bell. She wanted us to come outside with her. LOL! She really had us trained!
 
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Something we learned from a friend who trained avalanche rescue dogs, was to use whatever word you choose for when the dog pees/poops. We used those two terms for the respective voids. It's so helpful for when we traveled or for taking them outside before we left the house—or before bedtime at night, etc. It didn't necessarily make them pee/poop, but if they had to do so, using the command reminded them and they'd void.
 
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Queenie60

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I agree with the advices given above re the potty training. Typically, dogs won't soil where they sleep, that's where crate training comes in handy. Keeping them attached to you helps you know when they're making movements to relieve themselves and that's the time to scoop them up and take them outside. Having treats handy when they do the right thing is great because dogs learn by association.

As a groomer, I concur with @rocks. Puppies have a socialization period which starts at birth and ends at about 16-18 weeks of age. ANYTHING you want them to be comfortable with for life should be introduced to them a time or four during this period, including intro puppy grooming, vet, other friendly doggies, children, car rides, etc. Take treats everywhere with you so you can hand them out to those you are introducing the baby to. This makes everything a positive experience.

As for tooth brushing, there are toothpastes out there that are enzymatic, meaning they don't necessarily have to be scrubbed on to the teeth, they can just be introduced into the mouth and it will help avoid plaque buildup. Doing it before bed, or after the last treat of the day, works well. They are flavored so once you find one she likes, you're good to go.

One of the most important decisions you'll make will be what to feed. There are two brands on the market that start with human grade ingredients: The Honest Kitchen and Stella & Chewy. They are typically not available at PetSmart or Petco, but they should be available at your local Feed and Supply store. My preference is Honest Kitchen, they have a dehydrated and a kibble, I use both. I try to stay away from chicken-based foods as that is the #1 allergen in dogs due to the super-heavy antibiotic and hormone use in nearly all commercial chicken. You can buy HK in small sample packs so you can dial in which one she likes, and I am a believer in switching things up to keep their stomachs able to adapt to different foods. Personally, I cook for my dogs every week, and we can discuss that if you wish, but that does NOT provide a balanced diet, and balance is critically important. Dr. Karen Becker advises that adding real food to a dog's diet can reduce future health issues by up to 90%, so that's DEF something to think about.

Try not to spay your baby until she's over a year old. She NEEDS those sex hormones and many dogs develop endocrine issues over the course of their lives because they are devoid of those hormones and their adrenal glands, which can produce a small amount of sex hormones, become overworked over time trying to keep up with the body's needs.

Congratulations on the gorgeous addition to your family! I'm excited for you and look forward to seeing pictures of her at home. :kiss2:

Thank you so very much - this is very valuable advise. I appreciate you taking the time to provide this information!
 
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Queenie60

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I agree with the advices given above re the potty training. Typically, dogs won't soil where they sleep, that's where crate training comes in handy. Keeping them attached to you helps you know when they're making movements to relieve themselves and that's the time to scoop them up and take them outside. Having treats handy when they do the right thing is great because dogs learn by association.

As a groomer, I concur with @rocks. Puppies have a socialization period which starts at birth and ends at about 16-18 weeks of age. ANYTHING you want them to be comfortable with for life should be introduced to them a time or four during this period, including intro puppy grooming, vet, other friendly doggies, children, car rides, etc. Take treats everywhere with you so you can hand them out to those you are introducing the baby to. This makes everything a positive experience.

As for tooth brushing, there are toothpastes out there that are enzymatic, meaning they don't necessarily have to be scrubbed on to the teeth, they can just be introduced into the mouth and it will help avoid plaque buildup. Doing it before bed, or after the last treat of the day, works well. They are flavored so once you find one she likes, you're good to go.

One of the most important decisions you'll make will be what to feed. There are two brands on the market that start with human grade ingredients: The Honest Kitchen and Stella & Chewy. They are typically not available at PetSmart or Petco, but they should be available at your local Feed and Supply store. My preference is Honest Kitchen, they have a dehydrated and a kibble, I use both. I try to stay away from chicken-based foods as that is the #1 allergen in dogs due to the super-heavy antibiotic and hormone use in nearly all commercial chicken. You can buy HK in small sample packs so you can dial in which one she likes, and I am a believer in switching things up to keep their stomachs able to adapt to different foods. Personally, I cook for my dogs every week, and we can discuss that if you wish, but that does NOT provide a balanced diet, and balance is critically important. Dr. Karen Becker advises that adding real food to a dog's diet can reduce future health issues by up to 90%, so that's DEF something to think about.

Try not to spay your baby until she's over a year old. She NEEDS those sex hormones and many dogs develop endocrine issues over the course of their lives because they are devoid of those hormones and their adrenal glands, which can produce a small amount of sex hormones, become overworked over time trying to keep up with the body's needs.

Congratulations on the gorgeous addition to your family! I'm excited for you and look forward to seeing pictures of her at home. :kiss2:

@SandyinAnaheim - Do you know anything about "Just Food For Dogs" - I buy this at Pet Food Express, it's quite expensive however, my older pup (14) seems to be dong quite well on it. Your advise is great and I will take it to heart. It seems that you know a lot about dogs. I thank you for all of this and welcome anything else you want to tell me about!
 
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Awww! She's adorable, @Queenie60

We've had several wonderful terriers (Jack Russell, Smooth Fox Terriers) and on the advice of our vet, we hung a "bear bell" beside the door. We trained them to ring the bell when they needed/wanted outside. It worked a charm, once they figured it out. It didn't take them long to train us, LOL! When they'd ring the bell, we'd run to let them out.

My DH installed a little dog-door in the screen door for summer use so the dogs could come and go at will into the backyard. On one occasion, our sweet JRT rang the bell in a very urgent manner. My DH vaguely recalled that he'd left the screen door open, but we both dashed to the door, regardless. There was our little darlin', outside in the yard, with her head, shoulder and one front leg inside, wildly ringing the bell. She wanted us to come outside with her. LOL! She really had us trained!

I went through my dog supplies and found the bear bells that I used to train my current dog! It worked as he would jump on the door as a younger dog and now he comes and nudges at my legs. I am so glad I kept the bells as this will come into play while potty training. Thank you for the reminder!
 
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@Queenie60 , She’s precious! It’s amazing how quickly they find their place in our hearts. I see lots of happy days in your future.

Thank you! See the little heart on her head!
 

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My best advice is re your old dog. Perhaps let the old dog meet the puppy outside? Less chance of feeling territorial there. And let the old dog "discover" and befriend the puppy in his/her own way and time, without you carrying the puppy inside like a baby and making the old dog feel like he/she has lost his/her mama's attention.
I love dogs, puppies are just the cutest!!!
 

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@SandyinAnaheim - Do you know anything about "Just Food For Dogs" - I buy this at Pet Food Express, it's quite expensive however, my older pup (14) seems to be dong quite well on it. Your advise is great and I will take it to heart. It seems that you know a lot about dogs. I thank you for all of this and welcome anything else you want to tell me about!

I have heard of that food and have several pet clients on it. The only negative I have ever heard about it was two weeks ago. I have a client that has 2 Doodles, a 5 yo and a 1 yo. The little one came down with pancreatitis with that food after having been on it since she came home 10 months ago. Apparently it's too high in fat for her system. I pointed the pet parents to Dr. Judy Morgan's video and recipe, as I do for anyone who is interested in learning about pet nutrition, and they are now cooking for their pups until they figure out what to get next.

If you have an hour to invest to understand what is in pet food, I highly recommend watching Dr. Morgan's Webinar 1. Another tool in your arsenal is DogFoodAdvisor.com to learn about nutrients and ingredients contained in foods, along with grading reports and recall information.
 
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