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Can't really spell it all out, ya know, LOL!!

Anyhow, DH is going to be fffeee....late April and I *know* he's going to be really depressed!
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I want to do something wonderful and/ or get him something that he'd cherish forever and that would cheer him up. The only problem is this man is incredibly hard to shop for. Unlike me for instance (whereby if you buy me anything blingy, I'd be over the moon
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), he doesn't want anything. He's not into designer wear, he's not into electrical gadgets, music (well, not really), not even cars (in any case, we don't want to buy another car - having lost some not-so-chum-change when we sold ours in Singapore before we moved to Shanghai). Once I bought him a Tiffany watch (the only one time I managed to convince him to wear something designer), the darn thing broke down after 3 days - so that solidified his belief that one should never "waste money on designer cr$p"!! (his words, not mine, LOL).

The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can't give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?

The other thing is that his mother's 90th b.day celebration will be a HUUUUGEEE event during the Easter weekend and his niece is also getting married at that time. I was thinking initially of arranging a surprise b.day party with all his family members in Chicago, but we can't now, now that these other two events are def taking place. So I've got to arrange a b.day party here in Asia for us and friends or maybe just the two of us elsewhere. I'm thinking he may prefer the latter, since DH is so low-key, and he wouldn't want people to fuss about him. Actually, now that I've typed it all out, I think he would *hate* for people to know how old he is.

We also love travelling but I wonder about the feasibility of that, or whether it'd be desirable since we'd have just come back from a huge holiday to the US (?).

Any ideas or suggestions would be much appreciated.
 
OMG...Phoenix...your DH shares the same birthday month as my DH and mine is turning 40! I hope I'll get some ideas from responses to your thread. BTW, his birthday is on the 27th. When is your DH's?

Mine is also extremely hard to shop for. I don't really want to buy him a road bike for his birthday...
 
I took my husband on vacation to Hawaii for his 50th b-day because it is our 50th state and besides, we had never been there. Had a wonderful time and we can always remember the gift I gave him.
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ETA--I think something with just the two of you is fine.

I hope he isn't depressed. Having a birthday beats the alternative.
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Date: 2/7/2010 9:05:18 PM
Author:Phoenix
Can''t really spell it all out, ya know, LOL!!

Anyhow, DH is going to be fffeee....late April and I *know* he''s going to be really depressed!
5.gif
I want to do something wonderful and/ or get him something that he''d cherish forever and that would cheer him up. The only problem is this man is incredibly hard to shop for. Unlike me for instance (whereby if you buy me anything blingy, I''d be over the moon
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), he doesn''t want anything. He''s not into designer wear, he''s not into electrical gadgets, music (well, not really), not even cars (in any case, we don''t want to buy another car - having lost some not-so-chum-change when we sold ours in Singapore before we moved to Shanghai). Once I bought him a Tiffany watch (the only one time I managed to convince him to wear something designer), the darn thing broke down after 3 days - so that solidified his belief that one should never ''waste money on designer cr$p''!! (his words, not mine, LOL).

The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can''t give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?

The other thing is that his mother''s 90th b.day celebration will be a HUUUUGEEE event during the Easter weekend and his niece is also getting married at that time. I was thinking initially of arranging a surprise b.day party with all his family members in Chicago, but we can''t now, now that these other two events are def taking place. So I''ve got to arrange a b.day party here in Asia for us and friends or maybe just the two of us elsewhere. I''m thinking he may prefer the latter, since DH is so low-key, and he wouldn''t want people to fuss about him. Actually, now that I''ve typed it all out, I think he would *hate* for people to know how old he is.

We also love travelling but I wonder about the feasibility of that, or whether it''d be desirable since we''d have just come back from a huge holiday to the US (?).

Any ideas or suggestions would be much appreciated.
Rugby holiday? Get him tickets and organize a trip for the 2011 Rugby world cup hosted in beautiful New Zealand! (or an IOU as tickets are not yet on sale). It may be some time away but that would be an EPIC gift for an avid rugby fan AND you get to go on holiday too! Rugby World Cup official website

If you want somthing sooner or cheaper you could find out an upcoming "big game" happening somewhere nice and make a weekend of it. I can''t help with advice for which game as I''m not into rugby unfortunatly.
 
Date: 2/7/2010 11:50:26 PM
Author: 4ever

Date: 2/7/2010 9:05:18 PM
Author:Phoenix
Can''t really spell it all out, ya know, LOL!!

Anyhow, DH is going to be fffeee....late April and I *know* he''s going to be really depressed!
5.gif
I want to do something wonderful and/ or get him something that he''d cherish forever and that would cheer him up. The only problem is this man is incredibly hard to shop for. Unlike me for instance (whereby if you buy me anything blingy, I''d be over the moon
3.gif
), he doesn''t want anything. He''s not into designer wear, he''s not into electrical gadgets, music (well, not really), not even cars (in any case, we don''t want to buy another car - having lost some not-so-chum-change when we sold ours in Singapore before we moved to Shanghai). Once I bought him a Tiffany watch (the only one time I managed to convince him to wear something designer), the darn thing broke down after 3 days - so that solidified his belief that one should never ''waste money on designer cr$p''!! (his words, not mine, LOL).

The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can''t give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?

The other thing is that his mother''s 90th b.day celebration will be a HUUUUGEEE event during the Easter weekend and his niece is also getting married at that time. I was thinking initially of arranging a surprise b.day party with all his family members in Chicago, but we can''t now, now that these other two events are def taking place. So I''ve got to arrange a b.day party here in Asia for us and friends or maybe just the two of us elsewhere. I''m thinking he may prefer the latter, since DH is so low-key, and he wouldn''t want people to fuss about him. Actually, now that I''ve typed it all out, I think he would *hate* for people to know how old he is.

We also love travelling but I wonder about the feasibility of that, or whether it''d be desirable since we''d have just come back from a huge holiday to the US (?).

Any ideas or suggestions would be much appreciated.
Rugby holiday? Get him tickets and organize a trip for the 2011 Rugby world cup hosted in beautiful New Zealand! (or an IOU as tickets are not yet on sale). It may be some time away but that would be an EPIC gift for an avid rugby fan AND you get to go on holiday too! Rugby World Cup official website
Big ditto to 4ever''s suggestion. NZ is fabulous and the Rugby World Cup is the ultimate rugby event!
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Date: 2/7/2010 11:18:05 PM
Author: DiaDiva
OMG...Phoenix...your DH shares the same birthday month as my DH and mine is turning 40! I hope I'll get some ideas from responses to your thread. BTW, his birthday is on the 27th. When is your DH's?

Mine is also extremely hard to shop for. I don't really want to buy him a road bike for his birthday...
Hi Dia.

That's really amazing!! I have so many friends with birthdays around that time, WOW!!
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DH's b. day is on the 29th.

Mine also has a bike (well, actually, several) which he used to use for his triathlons and riding around in SG. I used to worry sick about him riding in SG and in Shanghai, I'm not letting him at all!! I see an accident almost on a daily basis here in SH!
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Congrats on yr DH turning 40. I personally think that men are at their best, in more ways than one, in their forties!
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Good luck with getting his present too.
 
Date: 2/7/2010 11:26:22 PM
Author: Fly Girl
I took my husband on vacation to Hawaii for his 50th b-day because it is our 50th state and besides, we had never been there. Had a wonderful time and we can always remember the gift I gave him.
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ETA--I think something with just the two of you is fine.

I hope he isn''t depressed. Having a birthday beats the alternative.
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Sounds like you two had a blast! I love Hawaii, it''s sooooo beautiful!
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What a lovely and thoughtful wife you are.
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Yes, I think DH would prefer something low-key, with just the two of us. I try to tell him not to get depressed, but he still does, at every single of his birthdays. And there I was thinking that only women get depressed abt getting older! I will telll him abt the "alternative"! Maybe that''d change his attitude!
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Date: 2/7/2010 11:50:26 PM
Author: 4ever



The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can't give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?
Rugby holiday? Get him tickets and organize a trip for the 2011 Rugby world cup hosted in beautiful New Zealand! (or an IOU as tickets are not yet on sale). It may be some time away but that would be an EPIC gift for an avid rugby fan AND you get to go on holiday too! Rugby World Cup official website

If you want somthing sooner or cheaper you could find out an upcoming 'big game' happening somewhere nice and make a weekend of it. I can't help with advice for which game as I'm not into rugby unfortunatly.
That's a FANTASTIC idea!!
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Thank you so much!
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We LOVE NZ and he loves rugby, so that'd be really PERFECT!! Thank you thank you.

I think the idea of going away for a weekend soon for another big game is also an EXCELLENT idea. I'll google it, but if anyone else who's into rugby could come up with some suggestions re which particular game, I'd be most grateful.
 
Date: 2/8/2010 12:05:48 AM
Author: Echidna

Big ditto to 4ever''s suggestion. NZ is fabulous and the Rugby World Cup is the ultimate rugby event!
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I definitely agree!! Both would be absolutely AMAZING!!
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Thank you.
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Date: 2/7/2010 11:50:26 PM
Author: 4ever

Date: 2/7/2010 9:05:18 PM
Author:Phoenix
Can''t really spell it all out, ya know, LOL!!

Anyhow, DH is going to be fffeee....late April and I *know* he''s going to be really depressed!
5.gif
I want to do something wonderful and/ or get him something that he''d cherish forever and that would cheer him up. The only problem is this man is incredibly hard to shop for. Unlike me for instance (whereby if you buy me anything blingy, I''d be over the moon
3.gif
), he doesn''t want anything. He''s not into designer wear, he''s not into electrical gadgets, music (well, not really), not even cars (in any case, we don''t want to buy another car - having lost some not-so-chum-change when we sold ours in Singapore before we moved to Shanghai). Once I bought him a Tiffany watch (the only one time I managed to convince him to wear something designer), the darn thing broke down after 3 days - so that solidified his belief that one should never ''waste money on designer cr$p''!! (his words, not mine, LOL).

The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can''t give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?

The other thing is that his mother''s 90th b.day celebration will be a HUUUUGEEE event during the Easter weekend and his niece is also getting married at that time. I was thinking initially of arranging a surprise b.day party with all his family members in Chicago, but we can''t now, now that these other two events are def taking place. So I''ve got to arrange a b.day party here in Asia for us and friends or maybe just the two of us elsewhere. I''m thinking he may prefer the latter, since DH is so low-key, and he wouldn''t want people to fuss about him. Actually, now that I''ve typed it all out, I think he would *hate* for people to know how old he is.

We also love travelling but I wonder about the feasibility of that, or whether it''d be desirable since we''d have just come back from a huge holiday to the US (?).

Any ideas or suggestions would be much appreciated.
Rugby holiday? Get him tickets and organize a trip for the 2011 Rugby world cup hosted in beautiful New Zealand! (or an IOU as tickets are not yet on sale). It may be some time away but that would be an EPIC gift for an avid rugby fan AND you get to go on holiday too! Rugby World Cup official website

If you want somthing sooner or cheaper you could find out an upcoming ''big game'' happening somewhere nice and make a weekend of it. I can''t help with advice for which game as I''m not into rugby unfortunatly.
Phoenix, This would be AMAZING!!! My brother LOVES rugby and plays "pro" in the US, he''d be over the moon with a gift like that.
 
Date: 2/9/2010 11:52:36 AM
Author: Bella_mezzo

Date: 2/7/2010 11:50:26 PM
Author: 4ever


Rugby holiday? Get him tickets and organize a trip for the 2011 Rugby world cup hosted in beautiful New Zealand! (or an IOU as tickets are not yet on sale). It may be some time away but that would be an EPIC gift for an avid rugby fan AND you get to go on holiday too! Rugby World Cup official website

If you want somthing sooner or cheaper you could find out an upcoming ''big game'' happening somewhere nice and make a weekend of it. I can''t help with advice for which game as I''m not into rugby unfortunatly.
Phoenix, This would be AMAZING!!! My brother LOVES rugby and plays ''pro'' in the US, he''d be over the moon with a gift like that.
Wow, your brother plays pro? I''d better not tell my DH, he''s going to be soooo jealous!!
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Thanks for your lovely words. I too think DH is going to be very happy indeed!
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This man loves watching rugby just as much as I love looking up pics of "diamond ****", as he puts it, LOL!
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Date: 2/9/2010 1:18:45 AM
Author: Phoenix


Date: 2/7/2010 11:50:26 PM
Author: 4ever





The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can't give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?
Rugby holiday? Get him tickets and organize a trip for the 2011 Rugby world cup hosted in beautiful New Zealand! (or an IOU as tickets are not yet on sale). It may be some time away but that would be an EPIC gift for an avid rugby fan AND you get to go on holiday too! Rugby World Cup official website

If you want somthing sooner or cheaper you could find out an upcoming 'big game' happening somewhere nice and make a weekend of it. I can't help with advice for which game as I'm not into rugby unfortunatly.
That's a FANTASTIC idea!!
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Thank you so much!
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We LOVE NZ and he loves rugby, so that'd be really PERFECT!! Thank you thank you.

I think the idea of going away for a weekend soon for another big game is also an EXCELLENT idea. I'll google it, but if anyone else who's into rugby could come up with some suggestions re which particular game, I'd be most grateful.
YAY!
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I feel like I have filled my helpfulness quota for the week now. Your DH is going to be SUPER STOKED!

As for going to see a game this year, does he have a favourate team? I'd find their official website and listed upcoming games and go from there. Good luck!
 
Date: 2/7/2010 9:05:18 PM
Author:Phoenix
Can't really spell it all out, ya know, LOL!!


Anyhow, DH is going to be fffeee....late April and I *know* he's going to be really depressed!
5.gif
I want to do something wonderful and/ or get him something that he'd cherish forever and that would cheer him up. The only problem is this man is incredibly hard to shop for. Unlike me for instance (whereby if you buy me anything blingy, I'd be over the moon
3.gif
), he doesn't want anything. He's not into designer wear, he's not into electrical gadgets, music (well, not really), not even cars (in any case, we don't want to buy another car - having lost some not-so-chum-change when we sold ours in Singapore before we moved to Shanghai). Once I bought him a Tiffany watch (the only one time I managed to convince him to wear something designer), the darn thing broke down after 3 days - so that solidified his belief that one should never 'waste money on designer cr$p'!! (his words, not mine, LOL).


The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can't give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?


The other thing is that his mother's 90th b.day celebration will be a HUUUUGEEE event during the Easter weekend and his niece is also getting married at that time. I was thinking initially of arranging a surprise b.day party with all his family members in Chicago, but we can't now, now that these other two events are def taking place. So I've got to arrange a b.day party here in Asia for us and friends or maybe just the two of us elsewhere. I'm thinking he may prefer the latter, since DH is so low-key, and he wouldn't want people to fuss about him. Actually, now that I've typed it all out, I think he would *hate* for people to know how old he is.


We also love travelling but I wonder about the feasibility of that, or whether it'd be desirable since we'd have just come back from a huge holiday to the US (?).


Any ideas or suggestions would be much appreciated.

Well, it's not QUITE around his b-day, but I can almost promise he'd love it: start arranging flights for a trip to NZ for the Rugby World Cup in 2011, and give him the tickets for his b-day (or the promise of them if you can't get them yet). He'd have to wait, but it combines things he loves: travel and rugby.

ETA: Hahaha, I see I've been beaten to the punch. Enjoy!
 
Date: 2/9/2010 7:21:24 PM
Author: 4ever


Date: 2/9/2010 1:18:45 AM
Author: Phoenix

That's a FANTASTIC idea!!
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Thank you so much!
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We LOVE NZ and he loves rugby, so that'd be really PERFECT!! Thank you thank you.

I think the idea of going away for a weekend soon for another big game is also an EXCELLENT idea. I'll google it, but if anyone else who's into rugby could come up with some suggestions re which particular game, I'd be most grateful.
YAY!
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I feel like I have filled my helpfulness quota for the week now. Your DH is going to be SUPER STOKED!

As for going to see a game this year, does he have a favourate team? I'd find their official website and listed upcoming games and go from there. Good luck!
YAY indeed!
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DH is going to be OVER THE MOON!!
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I think he likes the Ireland team (his ancestors were from Ireland), and the Aussies. I'm going to go look up their websites. That's a very good idea also. It'd keep him from getting depressed when 29th April comes. Maybe this will be the first year he'll look forward to his birthday rather than dread it!
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Many thanks again for all yr help.
 
Date: 2/9/2010 7:28:43 PM
Author: princesss

Date: 2/7/2010 9:05:18 PM
Author:Phoenix
Can''t really spell it all out, ya know, LOL!!


Anyhow, DH is going to be fffeee....late April and I *know* he''s going to be really depressed!
5.gif
I want to do something wonderful and/ or get him something that he''d cherish forever and that would cheer him up. The only problem is this man is incredibly hard to shop for. Unlike me for instance (whereby if you buy me anything blingy, I''d be over the moon
3.gif
), he doesn''t want anything. He''s not into designer wear, he''s not into electrical gadgets, music (well, not really), not even cars (in any case, we don''t want to buy another car - having lost some not-so-chum-change when we sold ours in Singapore before we moved to Shanghai). Once I bought him a Tiffany watch (the only one time I managed to convince him to wear something designer), the darn thing broke down after 3 days - so that solidified his belief that one should never ''waste money on designer cr$p''!! (his words, not mine, LOL).


The only two things that he feels passionate about (well, apart from me and our beloved cat, that is) are his work and rugby. But obviously I can''t give him anything related to work. Rugby, perhaps I could arrange a rugby holiday, but how do I go about doing that?


The other thing is that his mother''s 90th b.day celebration will be a HUUUUGEEE event during the Easter weekend and his niece is also getting married at that time. I was thinking initially of arranging a surprise b.day party with all his family members in Chicago, but we can''t now, now that these other two events are def taking place. So I''ve got to arrange a b.day party here in Asia for us and friends or maybe just the two of us elsewhere. I''m thinking he may prefer the latter, since DH is so low-key, and he wouldn''t want people to fuss about him. Actually, now that I''ve typed it all out, I think he would *hate* for people to know how old he is.


We also love travelling but I wonder about the feasibility of that, or whether it''d be desirable since we''d have just come back from a huge holiday to the US (?).


Any ideas or suggestions would be much appreciated.

Well, it''s not QUITE around his b-day, but I can almost promise he''d love it: start arranging flights for a trip to NZ for the Rugby World Cup in 2011, and give him the tickets for his b-day (or the promise of them if you can''t get them yet). He''d have to wait, but it combines things he loves: travel and rugby.

ETA: Hahaha, I see I''ve been beaten to the punch. Enjoy!
Thank you very much. SUPER idea!!
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