Hello ladies!
I''m new here and just love all the support and positive words you all offer each other, so I decided to join the fun!
I was previously in a dead end relationship with a boy, and I repeat boy, that lasted waaaaay too long, (8 yrs). I guess the thought of starting over seemed so daunting and I''m only 25! I finally kicked his sorry butt to the curb...hindsight sure is 20/20.
Anyway, I''ve recently met a wonderful man! He is intelligent, caring, fun, and kind. We''ve been seeing each other for only 2 months and we are already planning to get married. Does that seem strange? I guess I''ve never been in a relationship where I''ve felt like "I know this is it" especially so soon. I don''t feel like we are rushing. He says he doesn''t want me agonizing over timelines, so he let me know that he plans to ask me to marry him sometime before he deploys, which is May 2009 and we will get married the month after he returns in Sept. 2009. Has anyone else experienced this? When did you KNOW your SO was THE ONE? Was it early on or did it take time for you to realize? Just in case in matters, I''m 25 and SO is 30.
Thanks in advance for you responses and I look forward to chatting with you all more over the coming months!
I''m new here and just love all the support and positive words you all offer each other, so I decided to join the fun!

I was previously in a dead end relationship with a boy, and I repeat boy, that lasted waaaaay too long, (8 yrs). I guess the thought of starting over seemed so daunting and I''m only 25! I finally kicked his sorry butt to the curb...hindsight sure is 20/20.
Anyway, I''ve recently met a wonderful man! He is intelligent, caring, fun, and kind. We''ve been seeing each other for only 2 months and we are already planning to get married. Does that seem strange? I guess I''ve never been in a relationship where I''ve felt like "I know this is it" especially so soon. I don''t feel like we are rushing. He says he doesn''t want me agonizing over timelines, so he let me know that he plans to ask me to marry him sometime before he deploys, which is May 2009 and we will get married the month after he returns in Sept. 2009. Has anyone else experienced this? When did you KNOW your SO was THE ONE? Was it early on or did it take time for you to realize? Just in case in matters, I''m 25 and SO is 30.
Thanks in advance for you responses and I look forward to chatting with you all more over the coming months!
