I was wondering how fragile and breakable settings with micropave or small diamonds in the band are? Everywhere I go, people make it seem like these rings are so fragile and that the diamonds will break or the setting will get damaged (given my lifestyle as a student) and i was wondering what everyones experience is with this. I really dont want a plain band but everyone seems to think that this is the best option. Any suggestions on what settings are most durable but not boring?